I went back and forth, but he's never looked the same to me since the first Dday. All that sweetness and innocence was gone from his face. Every once in awhile I'd see the face of the man I fell in love with, but since this last discovery of false R, I refuse to look at him, unless I have too.
I'm not cold, I just don't want to see hope for us or anything like that by looking in his eyes. The only thing I would want to see is if he really started to feel shame or remorse for what he did. But, I think he knows he's not strong enough to let himself go there and feel that kind of pain. (hence the serial cheating)
I've heard people say "this time really aged him" and I just shrug and say I haven't looked this time.