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User Topic: IT people sabotaging my R
♂ 42047
Member # 42047
Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mostly kidding.

I have TrackMyiPhone. When we went to Mexico and I shut down all of my roaming stuff, I guess I turned that off. A few weeks later, BW tried to find me, and my phone was off line. BW had a moment of panic, but I immediately called from where I was at. I figured out how to turn it back on.

This week, the IT guy at my firm was checking all of the security settings and whatever else on the phones. Today, I was in a meeting and shut off the ringer. So I didn't take her call or see her text. I guess the IT guy did something, because my phone was off line again.

I called BW right back, but I know she was panicked. Just when I think everything is going OK, BAM! The strangest things, too. I hate that I have put all of these extra traps into our lives.

At the very least, I have to check FindMyiPhone every time someone has my phone.

Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC

Posts: 911 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 43351
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm at work, he calls, I don't answer (in meetings) and he panics. Feel horrible, call right back when I can.. It's so hard going thru this constantly in panic mode that I'm going to miss a call when he has a trigger..

Posts: 57 | Registered: May 2014
♀ 36853
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have noticed my "find my iPhone" was turned off twice lately and I did NOT turn it off. I think it may have turned off when I did the iPhone updates.

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

Posts: 1814 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
♀ 40502
Member # 40502
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a gentle suggestion.

Don't use a work-issued cell phone for personal use. Carry your own and all non-work related calls and people call your personal one.

The company issued one belongs to the company and all data that stored on it including apps and texts.

And I can sympathize. My phone is OFF for all con calls and meetings. No ifs, ands, or buts.

BS/Me (61)
WH (62) 3 years behind my back. EA & PA with OW who was an old high school friend.
1 Adult Child
DDay: August 26 2012
5 Ddays since over the following 18 months.
Trying to R. I just don't have it in me.

Posts: 179 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: East of the Grape Vine
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