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User Topic: Ringtone for the stbxh
renee21
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I assigned a 'special' ringtone for him....one, so I know to think carefully whether or not I want to pickup and two, its funny.

I went with the Imperial March...you know the Darth Vader song...lol

Originally I found one that said an asshole is calling but didn't think it would be appropriate around kids.

Anyone else?


BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I send Wasband straight to voice mail, so he doesn't get a special ringtone. But if he did, I think I'd use the sound of crickets chirping.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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AlwaysBeenStrong
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL...I have 2....the text is a train...as in the train wreck is texting.

His ring is a dog barking...self explanatory


BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42

Posts: 125 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Lonelyville
stronger than he
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XWH's texts are announced by a clown horn.


"The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast." - Oscar Wilde

Posts: 92 | Registered: Mar 2011
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

STBXH is blocked for calls/txts on my phone. I did this about 6 months after D-day. Best thing I ever did.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 834 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is "Cheater,Cheater" by Joey and Rory and I have an ominous tone for his texts and VMs


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1758 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
justjim
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Irish Blues guitarist Rory Gallagher, perhaps my favorite musician, has has a song called 'Better get used to being my used to be".

Seems appropriate.


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013
areyoukidding
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The shark music from Jaws

A friend of mine had the distinctive two note "dun dun" from Law & Order when the scene changes.


BS (me) : 53 Freshly divorced and so very happy. To infinity and beyond!!


Trying to understand the behaviour of some people is like trying to smell the number 9.


Posts: 653 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Canada
Linus1968
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My text tone is the music from the Wizard of Oz, when Miss Gulch is riding her bike to pick up Toto. I created a ringtone for that.
Her ring tone (which I never hear) is the Twilight Zone theme song.

You're an interesting species, an interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other. - Contact


Me: Me
Her: Multiple men, multiple times, OC with the latest one
S: 16, D:14
May 27, 2014 DIVORCED!!!
In the words of Dory "Whew, I'm glad I got that off my chest."

Posts: 241 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Florida
Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine says "An idiot is attempting to reach you on your cellular device".


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

Posts: 45 | Registered: Jun 2013
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have the crickets.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 565 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Barking dog but I should probably change it. I've had that for years and the kids would say- the big dog is calling. Yep- need to change that.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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dindy
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread has me chuckling no end.

I must change ex's ring/text tone.

Just need to think of something funny.....


Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had Darth Vader's Theme (The Imperial March)
The text tone was Darth Vader's Breath.

Now his profile picture is a clown and the text tone is a clown horn.

I keep changing it so that it's fresh and funny.

He usually texts and if he's driving he calls but I let the kids answer.

They did ask about the clown picture but I just said I thought it was a funny picture.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1479 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had that for years and the kids would say- the big dog is calling

Snork.

You all are very creative. Thanks for the smiles this morning


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8893 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread has me ROTFL!

My current phone doesn't have separate ringtones although I hope to get a new one soon, but I did change the STBX's ID in my phone so when it rings I see "Rata de dos patas" instead of his name.

I live in a Spanish-speaking country, and this particular song is a perfect description of him. It translates in English as, "Two-legged rat." Here it is with English lyrics:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTbh93rUnYM


BS: 34
WS: 36 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
2 OC, one 6 yrs old and the other a few months (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
burnedcanuckEMS
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post inspired me to add a special tone to my phone. I don't know why I didn't think of this before - SI rocks!

For texts - an emergency tone that says 'warning you have an ex text"

Ringtone - crazy train - Ozzy Osbourne


hahahhaha awesome!


Me: BW 38, Him: WH 37
M: 07/07/07
DDay: 06/09/12
Divorce Granted on December 5, 2012 - fasted divorce ever (thanks to my good lawyer) and I am not looking back with ANY regrets!!

PS...sorry for any spelling errors or missing letters etc..... ty


Posts: 287 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Alberta
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have the theme from the Exorcist for the dumbass. It makes me smile.


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1243 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
No12turn2
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ringtone for my ex
Whore by In this moment


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
hoya96
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have a ringtone since the number of times we have spoken on the phone in the past 3 years is in the low single digits, but I do have him set to "suspense" for the text tone. It's a very ominous "something bad is around the corner" sound.

It's appropriate.


Me: 40 and fabulous!
3 children ages 10, 12 and 14
Ex said he wanted separation 2/14/10
DDay #1: 5/23/10 18 month affair with his 22 yr old paralegal
DDay #2 9/22/10 my best friend, now his wife
Divorced: 12/10/10
Re-married a wonderful man.

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