How does your BH feel about this?
i appoligized as soon as possible for the situation b/c i felt that it would bring back memories of everything. he said it was okay and that it didn't really bring back memories but that he just felt it was odd as well that she would want to sit with us and be so friendly toward me.
It's quite the feat already to forgive your AP
it's my BH theroy that she does not view me in the way i view myself, meaning, she doesn't view me as an AP b/c they were already in the process of D, whereas i still view myself as an AP b/c they were not legally D and regardless of living situation, married is married....
Did you ever accept her friend request?
no, it is at this moment still pending. we have swapped a few messages back and forth, with her asking questions and me answering them, but she is aware that i'm not sure if allowing her into my life in any other way than answering her questions about the A is the best for my Marriage.
Guess who will see those pics if she posts them on social media. It would be like a slap in the face to the AP. As in "Look who I was spending time with and you can't anymore.
you are correct. i do know that he is blocked on all her social media pages, but i also am not nieve enough to believe that there isn't someone on her social media page who would show AP.... and her using me as a tool through their D is the last thing i want....i have been used enough, and used people enough in the past....