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User Topic: He Poked the Bear
♀ 27088
Member # 27088
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No 2x4s please I know NC is best with stbxh aka the chameleon...

My little guy had an emotional meltdown last night. We were out at the sports complex for a meeting well dad used to be there running the place and now he's not because of his A with gutter pig that started there....little man I guess was overwhelmed and lost it bad. I don't know how many here have a 9 yr old with ADHD but it was an explosion. Turns out he was thinking about gutter pig and he came unglued.

I was fuming with anger last night with Stbxh and her. I want to hurt them for causing that kind of hurt in my baby. He was a happy kid before this shit. Side note, I'm not going to take any kind of snapped TV style action, just how I'm feeling.

Stbxh was supposed to see little man last night before he went out of town for business he didn't make it and didn't bother to tell me he wasn't coming. He texts this am he wants to see little man at school before he goes in. I'm still pissed, car needs gas, tire pressure was low, been driving DD16 in the am too as she's been dealing with depression and anxiety doesn't sleep well misses bus lately.

Basically super mom/dad is doing it all and phone is blowing up with him wanting me to accommodate him. Hesays something along the lines of he knows I hate his guts and think he is a POS....that's where he poked the bear....queue grizzly attack.

I actually told him to fuck off and die. And a slew of things. Never said that one before but this morning I was filled with hatred for him and her for seeing the pain in my kids.

Don't poke the bear.

BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Florida
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((renee & kiddos)))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry, it is very hard.

Posts: 989 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: CA
♀ 40115
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I completely understand. I would be tempted to reply too. "I'm sorry. I cannot continue to accommodate your schedule requests when you continue to blow off visitation. From now on, visitation will accommodate my schedule since you have shown that it is not a priority for you." Then tell him to fuck off and die.

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3390 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 38271
Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


So sorry!!

~~When people show you who they are believe them ~~ Maya Angelou

Me -BS (49)

DS 21, DD 17
Divorced 8/2015

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