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Emotionalhell (original poster member #39902) posted at 11:07 PM on Friday, May 16th, 2014
For the children.: now I am afraid I taught them to put up with to much : that I may have taught them , the children that verbal abuse is okay.
Religious reasons: God doesn't like divorce. I took a vow seriously. Reality... God doesn't expect you to endure mistreatment .
Family reasons: I did not want to be a failure. I did not want to listen to my mother say .." I told you so ".:(
Financial reasons :....... Boy was I naive on this one. My XH had no common sense with. $ . Always blamed me for not having any. $ . But it was nothing for him to charge lots of $ on credit cards then wonder why we had no $.
I am better off $ wise than I was .
Fear of being alone.. Reality. I like my own company. It's peaceful. . It's nice not to have the verbal abuse & drama.
Just some things to ponder. I'm sure many of you could have your own list .
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
wontdefineme ( member #31421) posted at 3:56 AM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014
All of the above for me too!
wontdefineme ( member #31421) posted at 3:56 AM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014
Edited because I hit submit twice.
[This message edited by wontdefineme at 9:57 PM, May 16th (Friday)]
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:36 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
GotPlayed ( member #41294) posted at 1:04 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014
Couldn't have written this better myself. Thank you for that.
Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome
9years ( member #21212) posted at 4:17 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014
Sounds about right, but I'll ad one
'He's got so many decent qualities and soo much potential, if only'
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