So there is a parade and fair in town this weekend. It comes Every year on this May long weekend. Our family (me, WH, our four kids) go every year.
So my question is, WH is taking the kids to the parade tomorrow morning and then to the fair after. Should I go with them?
I don't want to pretend to be a happy family, and honestly I really don't feel like going. I could clean the house and get things done that I can't do when the kids are with me, which is 24/7 usually.
BUT, I don't want to regret not going, after the divorce is final, this weekend will be his weekend, he only gets long weekends off work. So maybe my last chance to take them. And maybe it'll be a chance for the WH to see what he's losing.
What should I do? What would you do?
Go see a rate R movie. Or clean. Or sit at a coffee shop. Get a pedicure. Try on clothes at the mall <- My favorite. My kid never lets me try on clothes.
Do things you can only do kid-less. You will regret not doing that on Monday.
I just don't wanna look back next yr and wish I went with them...
And next year, you may have them on the weekend of the fair and WH will be SOL.
Filed for divorce May 16, 2014
1st court hearing October 23, 2014 (rescheduled :/)
divorce final November 20, 2014
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
I don't want to pretend to be a happy family, and honestly I really don't feel like going.
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him