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 ThoughtIKnewYa (original poster member #18449) posted at 5:41 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

Our cat, Happy, was diagnosed with an abdominal cancer a year and a half ago, after we took him in for extreme vomiting. He was given meds to stop the vomiting and we asked for pain meds when those stopped working. He had a LOT of good days and some really bad days. Waywardson was on vacation until last Friday. As soon as he went back to work, the barforama began. We kept trying different meds and different med schedules, but he just couldn't keep the meds down. We knew it was time, but we didn't want to do it yesterday because that was the anniversary of Waywardson's dad's death. Happy started vomiting blood yesterday evening, so we were up most of the night cleaning carpets. We got a little sleep. When we woke up, Happy was laying in the sun. I'm glad he was able to spend his last morning like that. When Waywardson got the carrier, Happy went right in. That had never happened before and it tore Waywardson up, but we knew- without a doubt- that he was ready.

Rest in Peace, Happy.

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Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

((((ThoughtIKnewYa))))

I am so sorry. It amazes me how our beloved furbabies "know" when it's their time. Hold tight to all your happy memories of Happy.

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

(((TIKY+WWS+Happy)))

He was a beautiful boy.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 5:59 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

I'm sorry for your loss.

(((Hugs)))

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:20 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

RIP Happy. Such a beautiful boy. ((((hugs))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Want2help ( member #20547) posted at 8:25 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

(((TIKY, Happy, and Family)))

FBS/WS- me.
F(serial)WS/BS- him.

Madhatters. More Ddays than birthdays, at this point. His OC, my OC...

UPDATE: Divorcing after almost 20 years.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 8:59 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

I'm so sorry. He was beautiful.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:43 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

I'm so sorry. He was blessed to be a part of a family who truly loved him and took such loving care of him.

((((TIKY, WWS, Happy))))

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:06 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

(((Tiky & family)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 12:24 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

So sorry, ((tiky and family))



i edit frequently because i have to

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 12:29 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

What a sweet looking boy!

(((hugs)))

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 2:30 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

What a beautiful kitty... I'm so sorry for your loss

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:14 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

(((((TIKY, family & Happy)))))

What a pretty boy...I'm so sorry for your loss

RIP

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:16 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

I'm so sorry to hear that. It is so hard when our furry family members cross over to the Rainbow Bridge.

((((TIKY and family))))

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 ThoughtIKnewYa (original poster member #18449) posted at 4:38 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

Awwww... Kiki just realized he isn't here. He was her "man". She's crying for him.

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Guinness23 ( member #42852) posted at 4:57 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

RIP Happy. Rainbow Bridge is a magical place where animals go and their youth, strength, health and vitality is restored while they wait for you to cross.

As a Dog "mom" of a family of Lhasa Apso dogs that passed on one by one within 36 months, this is very hard on us...not them. They know. They understand their time here is over. They also know they really don't leave us. They are there always watching over us till we get to the other side.

Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23

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Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 5:07 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

(((((TIKY)))))

I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beauty he was.

Divorced since 2012

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traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 12:53 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

Thank you Happy for all the unconditional love you brought into this world! The TIKY's family misses you bunches but they find comfort in knowing you're at peace. Please say Hi to my furbabies in heaven & give them my love

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 2:05 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

RIP Happy. Please say a big hello to Emma, Calley and Rufus.

I hope you enjoy your life on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge!!!

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:33 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

((((hugs))))

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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