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Topic: just a what if legal suit?

broken0912
♀ 39780
Member # 39780

Posted: 3:25 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014

Lets just say a WS asks BS not to have his child and she complies, until finding out at age 48 that he gave OW his child while practicing protected sex with BS. Then later BS finds out she has a STD that will be with her for rest of her life.

Can BS sue WS for taking away right to have a child and for suffering of mental anguish and physical issues from disease and infidelity?

BS 52
WS 64
OW 34 now - 23-24 when it began
dday-9/4/12
M 16+ together 19
HIS DC: D-33
6,S-28,S-25
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 120 | Registered: Jul 2013

MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866

Posted: 11:53 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014

Things like this will vary from state to state, so it is best to contact an attorney.

Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007

5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455

Posted: 11:58 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014

Things like this will vary from state to state, so it is best to contact an attorney

Unfortunately, this^^^^

But, I'll hold his arms so you can kick him ......yea, there. Crap, I'm sorry. What a cold hearted SOB.

Strength

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 5426 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest

LifeIsBroken
♀ 27071
Member # 27071

Posted: 12:08 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014

I'll gladly help 5454 hold him while you kick him 'there' - then may I kick him 'there,' as well ? Please ? I hope you talk with a lawyer who will have some good reason, with law behind it, to sue your WH's butt to kingdom come. He deserves everything you can throw at him. (((( ))))

D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)

Posts: 1239 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Missouri

absolut
♀ 37933
Member # 37933

Posted: 3:15 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014

Are you separating?

On not having a baby, no. You agreed to that. It doesn't matter if he has 12 kids by 5 women. YOU still agreed not to have kids.

Stay calm. You can adopt. It's not as awful as a lot of people think. And frankly, I'm starting to think it's easier to just have a baby 100% on your own so you never have to argue about pickup and drop off or him introducing your kid to his gf.

I'm going to assume he gave you HSV? Consult an attorney. You may have a lawsuit for your pain and suffering. DO NOT have any kind of sex with him it can totally nullify a lawsuit. If you already have, stop.

Stay calm. Your primary outbreak is your worst. The first year is the worst after that outbreaks become less frequent and less severe and often disappear entirely as your body continues to build up antibodies.

Posts: 421 | Registered: Dec 2012

heartache101
♀ 26465
Member # 26465

Posted: 9:36 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014

I am sorry. Contact a lawyer ASAP! Some states allow suit against AP also!
If he gave you HPV please be careful it can turn into cancer. It did with me. I had to have complete hysterectomy.
I would adopt. Get rid of the wayard then adopt.

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3225 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana

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