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User Topic: just a what if legal suit?
♀ 39780
Member # 39780
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lets just say a WS asks BS not to have his child and she complies, until finding out at age 48 that he gave OW his child while practicing protected sex with BS. Then later BS finds out she has a STD that will be with her for rest of her life.

Can BS sue WS for taking away right to have a child and for suffering of mental anguish and physical issues from disease and infidelity?

BS 52
WS 63
OW 34 now - 23-24 when it began
M 13+ together 16
HIS DC: D-33,S-25,S-22
MINE: 0 -he was too old to have C at 44, but had OC at 57
LTA: EA 1-2yr then 1.5 after pa end
LTA: PA 3.5-4 yrs

Posts: 112 | Registered: Jul 2013
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things like this will vary from state to state, so it is best to contact an attorney.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 54369 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:58 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Things like this will vary from state to state, so it is best to contact an attorney

Unfortunately, this^^^^

But, I'll hold his arms so you can kick him ......yea, there. Crap, I'm sorry. What a cold hearted SOB.


BH 53, WW 44
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 11 Ours, DGS 5, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 4509 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
♀ 27071
Member # 27071
Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll gladly help 5454 hold him while you kick him 'there' - then may I kick him 'there,' as well ? Please ? I hope you talk with a lawyer who will have some good reason, with law behind it, to sue your WH's butt to kingdom come. He deserves everything you can throw at him. (((( ))))

BW: 59 XH: 60 Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
MOW: 50 (she said she wanted a sugar daddy; xh said, "I'M HIM!")
"The difficulty lies not so much in developing new ideas as in escaping from old ones." J M Keynes.

Posts: 1119 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Massachusetts
♀ 37933
Member # 37933
Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you separating?

On not having a baby, no. You agreed to that. It doesn't matter if he has 12 kids by 5 women. YOU still agreed not to have kids.

Stay calm. You can adopt. It's not as awful as a lot of people think. And frankly, I'm starting to think it's easier to just have a baby 100% on your own so you never have to argue about pickup and drop off or him introducing your kid to his gf.

I'm going to assume he gave you HSV? Consult an attorney. You may have a lawsuit for your pain and suffering. DO NOT have any kind of sex with him it can totally nullify a lawsuit. If you already have, stop.

Stay calm. Your primary outbreak is your worst. The first year is the worst after that outbreaks become less frequent and less severe and often disappear entirely as your body continues to build up antibodies.

Posts: 421 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 26465
Member # 26465
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry. Contact a lawyer ASAP! Some states allow suit against AP also!
If he gave you HPV please be careful it can turn into cancer. It did with me. I had to have complete hysterectomy.
I would adopt. Get rid of the wayard then adopt.

There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3222 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
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