Thanks for your replies.
I did contact ex about this and he swears he didn't say anything and that this woman is just a friend who sleeps on his floor.
Yeah fucking right!
I know how bad his boundaries are with women. Heck, I've experienced them first-hand during our 8.5 year relationship.
There is no way that suddenly a friend whom he hasn't seen in over 10 years and lives in another city is just helping out. If that's the case then why is she sleeping over? It only takes an hour by train for her to go to her own home.
Ex just needs to look at this from DS' point of view. Daddys' special friend who he has only met twice is suddenly sleeping over. To DS, a family is mummy, daddy and his sister. And this is sending out so many mixed messages to him when he is already confused from so much change this last year.
Ex did say that he wouldn't have her stay over again if it was causing problems. Which is a sure enough statement to me that they are more than just friends.
I just want a little drama as possible for my children.
Ex doesn't contact mutual friends of ours who have children so why only contact another single woman? He just can't help but let verbal diarrhea (sp?) spew out of his mouth. And he just keeps lying to everyone. What a great role model he is to my children. And as usual I'm left picking up the pieces.
Softcentre, my DD and I have pretty much been co-sleeping from birth. We share a double bed and DS' bed is alongside mine. I have researched a lot about co-sleeping and we do co-sleep safely. Thank you for your concern.