After my last post asking why it was taking so long to get disclosure, I completely flipped out on my therapist and our marriage counselor. I was told, again, that getting full disclosure can take a year or two. That isn't working for me. So I demanded that we do it now and that I get the phone records and he gets an iPhone for the tracking service. It took well over a month but I have both.
Now what? I've tried googling a few numbers but I'm not getting anywhere. I've noticed a frequency of a few numbers going back as far as the 18 months that verizon keeps records for.
I know I'm supposed to wait until 50 post to get tin to the investigative tips forum but I'm desperate. Our full disclosure is on Thursday. Short of just asking (and trusting he's going to tell the truth) I don't know what else to do.
I feel that calling and hanging up might look...crazy.
Also, in a random conversation yesterday he was talking casually about a girl if never heard of. I asked if he slept with her and he actually said yes. 3 yrs ago. Right after our sin was born. He said he didn't want to say no and then tell me yes on Thursday.
Idk. I'm a bit of a mess right now.
How can I look up who owns these numbers? Aside from Google, Facebook, and craigslist? I've cross rednecked gmail contacts as we'll.
Sorry for the typos. Two toddlers and I'm typing fast while they pull on me. Ug. Ty in advance