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AlwaysBeenStrong posted 5/19/2014 12:55 PM

So I am sitting by the phone, patiently waiting to hear if the STBX will be getting his job back. It's in front of the union board. I have been praying for it for weeks now. I know he doesn't even deserve my prayers, but is it selfish for me to want it to be a little less stressful for me.

I know I can do it on my own without his money...I just would like to get my alimony for the next few years of school and getting on my feet, or I will have to get 2 jobs and go to school. That would make this transition/divorce so much easier for me.

And next week we have our next court date.

I just want to get into Marty McFly's time machine, be divorced and have all this mess behind me and never have to look back!

Deeply Scared posted 5/19/2014 16:42 PM

Good thoughts to you that your alimony worries will soon be over!

jo2love posted 5/19/2014 16:55 PM

(((Always)))

Sending mojo and good thoughts.

nowiknow23 posted 5/19/2014 17:19 PM

((((Always)))) Waiting is hard on the nerves. Hang in there.

AlwaysBeenStrong posted 5/20/2014 06:55 AM

Well, it's going to take 3-7 business days for decision. That is cutting it very close to our court date. I have to pay a few bills that he couldn't pay, I guess unemployment is deciding about his case as well. He found a roofing job, but the weather is not working with him. Can we say his Karma bus really hit him hard since I filed and I am the innocent bystander to the wreck!

I just want it over asap, hopefully they can use the past 3 years of income to decide a good amount and then I can feel some security...something that I haven't had in the 3 years of False R.

23 years is a very long time to walk away with nothing but a cut in his pension, if it is there when he retires (Union pension).

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