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AlwaysBeenStrong (original poster member #39888) posted at 6:55 PM on Monday, May 19th, 2014
So I am sitting by the phone, patiently waiting to hear if the STBX will be getting his job back. It's in front of the union board. I have been praying for it for weeks now. I know he doesn't even deserve my prayers, but is it selfish for me to want it to be a little less stressful for me.
I know I can do it on my own without his money...I just would like to get my alimony for the next few years of school and getting on my feet, or I will have to get 2 jobs and go to school. That would make this transition/divorce so much easier for me.
And next week we have our next court date.
I just want to get into Marty McFly's time machine, be divorced and have all this mess behind me and never have to look back! 
BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 10:42 PM on Monday, May 19th, 2014
Good thoughts to you that your alimony worries will soon be over! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:55 PM on Monday, May 19th, 2014
(((Always)))
Sending mojo and good thoughts.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:19 PM on Monday, May 19th, 2014
((((Always)))) Waiting is hard on the nerves. Hang in there.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
AlwaysBeenStrong (original poster member #39888) posted at 12:55 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Well, it's going to take 3-7 business days for decision. That is cutting it very close to our court date. I have to pay a few bills that he couldn't pay, I guess unemployment is deciding about his case as well. He found a roofing job, but the weather is not working with him. Can we say his Karma bus really hit him hard since I filed and I am the innocent bystander to the wreck!
I just want it over asap, hopefully they can use the past 3 years of income to decide a good amount and then I can feel some security...something that I haven't had in the 3 years of False R.
23 years is a very long time to walk away with nothing but a cut in his pension, if it is there when he retires (Union pension).
BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42
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