So, my intelligent, hard-working, caring handsome hero is in fact only one of two things: asshole or idiot.
(((((Truly))))), lots of men can be intelligent, hard working, caring, and handsome, but they can also be liars, unfaithful, addicted, egotistical bastards too. I'm NOT saying that your fella is, just saying that being intelligent, hard working, caring and handsome are not mutually exclusive to being a low life scum sucking rat bastard. Sometimes the biggest assholes come in the nicest looking and nicest charismatic packages.
As for a hero, well, that depends on what you mean by hero. Is he a firefighter or a police officer, who puts his life on the line for others every day? Did he give a kidney to someone in need, just because he was a best match and that person would die without the kidney? Did he throw himself in the path of an oncoming vehicle, pushing a child or someone out of the path of certain injury or death? Those are heroes to me. Individual definitions of "hero" vary, of course.
From your profile:
WH admits ¨Yes.¨ to the question of infidelity but offers no further information and will not answer any questions.
Hon, if you have still not gotten any info, and the most convenient pablum he is trying to spoon feed you is that he doesn't remember or he refuses to answer, that's awful!
This sich doesn't sound like he is fully invested in R. R is hard if you're doing it right.
Why are you trying so hard? That's a question only you can answer. Maybe it's because you have hope, and hope springs eternal until it's dead and beaten into the ground, stomped on, pooped on, and lit on fire.
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)