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timidhope (original poster member #43189) posted at 5:51 AM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
He wants to live day by day, and hope that one day he'll come to the realization that he can accept what I've done or that he wants to leave entirely.
He asked if it'd be easier for me to be just friends with him for now.
I'm so sorry I put us in this situation. He's sorry he couldn't be who I wanted him to be years ago.
This feels surreal.
[This message edited by timidhope at 12:18 AM, May 20th (Tuesday)]
JustWant2BHappy ( member #43351) posted at 3:15 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Are you living together? Do you have kids? It sounds like maybe he just wants to try to start over? Go on dates, start out as friends to see if you can start over again?
timidhope (original poster member #43189) posted at 5:40 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
We aren't living together or have kids.
thanks for being optimistic, JustWant2behappy his friends ... he never posed that to me before ...i think he seriously wants an amicable out to the relationship
He has never been hurt by any girl as much as by me. He never had to struggle internally so much to be with someone. I get why it's too much to bear.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 12:23 AM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
DDay is a month ago. I can completely understand his "day by day" logic. He's still numb. He's still in pieces.
He's sorry he couldn't be who I wanted him to be years ago
What does that mean?
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
timidhope (original poster member #43189) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
My actions have damaged his self esteem immensely. I think he's also trying to acknowledge how I felt and what i asked of him prior to having the affair.
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