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StillLivin posted 5/20/2014 09:26 AM

Today is our anniversary and if all goes right, we will be divorced in a month.
Dreamed about him last night. I woke up wanting to send him a shitty text, but I won't.
Asswhole, Happy Anniversary. You're a poor excuse for a husband, a man, and a decent human being! How does it feel to be a complete and utter failure at everything? Awwww still can't find a job without wifey doing your resume! Shocker there you morally bankrupt POS cheatinass fucker. I HATE you!
Like I said, I'm not going to break NC. Besides, he has never once remembered our anniversary without reminding anyway.

norabird posted 5/20/2014 10:13 AM

Fuck that guy!

(((StillLivin)))

SBB posted 5/20/2014 10:27 AM

I well remember sitting on my hands through these tidal waves.

Don't give him any of you - not even your anger. Fuck him and the (w)horse he rode in on.

I hope you're OK. The firsts are always the roughest. I'm sorry he invaded your dream. FTG.

Gemini71 posted 5/20/2014 12:37 PM

Wow, you are stronger than I. Our next court date is a week after our 19th Anniversary. I so did not want to still be married at this point. I'll try to follow your example and rant here instead of breaking NC. FTG. Crickets to him.

SunshineSoul posted 5/20/2014 13:15 PM

It is our anniversary today too. 13 years. Not so lucky, I guess. Lol!

Hugs to you! Stay strong, and celebrate getting YOU back. The day has new meaning now. Good luck!

StillLivin posted 5/20/2014 13:21 PM

Thank you everybody!
The wave has passed. Texted a friend, that helped. Then went outside and used all that anger and hurt energy to get some yard work done.
Watered my garden, them my flower pots and rose bushes. Then I cleaned off the patio and organized. I grabbed the pruning shears and pruned away. Went for a walk.
Whew, ok. I think I can handle the rest of the day.
FTG. He never deserved me anyway! Asswhole and whore deserve each other and I hope they have many miserable years together.


ETA: Sunshine, I'm sorry. Your DD is so recent, I know this has to really be rough on you today!
Lots and lots of hugs.
(((Sunshine)))

[This message edited by StillLivin at 1:22 PM, May 20th (Tuesday)]