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StillLivin (original poster member #40229) posted at 3:26 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Today is our anniversary and if all goes right, we will be divorced in a month.
Dreamed about him last night. I woke up wanting to send him a shitty text, but I won't.
Asswhole, Happy Anniversary. You're a poor excuse for a husband, a man, and a decent human being! How does it feel to be a complete and utter failure at everything? Awwww still can't find a job without wifey doing your resume! Shocker there you morally bankrupt POS cheatinass fucker. I HATE you!
Like I said, I'm not going to break NC. Besides, he has never once remembered our anniversary without reminding anyway.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Fuck that guy!
(((StillLivin)))
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:27 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
I well remember sitting on my hands through these tidal waves.
Don't give him any of you - not even your anger. Fuck him and the (w)horse he rode in on.
I hope you're OK. The firsts are always the roughest. I'm sorry he invaded your dream. FTG.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Wow, you are stronger than I. Our next court date is a week after our 19th Anniversary. I so did not want to still be married at this point. I'll try to follow your example and rant here instead of breaking NC. FTG. Crickets to him.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
SunshineSoul ( member #43374) posted at 7:15 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
It is our anniversary today too. 13 years. Not so lucky, I guess. Lol!
Hugs to you! Stay strong, and celebrate getting YOU back. The day has new meaning now. Good luck!
Me = BS, 38
Him = WH, 43
2 beautiful boys.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.
It's just not that simple.
StillLivin (original poster member #40229) posted at 7:21 PM on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
Thank you everybody!
The wave has passed. Texted a friend, that helped. Then went outside and used all that anger and hurt energy to get some yard work done.
Watered my garden, them my flower pots and rose bushes. Then I cleaned off the patio and organized. I grabbed the pruning shears and pruned away. Went for a walk.
Whew, ok. I think I can handle the rest of the day.
FTG. He never deserved me anyway! Asswhole and whore deserve each other and I hope they have many miserable years together.
ETA: Sunshine, I'm sorry. Your DD is so recent, I know this has to really be rough on you today!
Lots and lots of hugs.
(((Sunshine)))
[This message edited by StillLivin at 1:22 PM, May 20th (Tuesday)]
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
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