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Oh, it's my fault your life sucks now? (vent)

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SeeingRed posted 5/20/2014 17:40 PM

I saw my sex addicted, narcissistic asshat of a STBXH and he actually blamed me because he is now sleeping on a blow up mattress in his friend's house because and I quote "I threw him out."

I kept my cool and ignored him otherwise I would have to figure out how to dispose of a body

But seriously how far up his ass must his head be to blame ME for "throwing him out" as the cause of his current living conditions while overlooking the fact that he HAD BEEN FUCKING STRANGERS AND HOOKERS FOR YEARS.

Clearly, I'm the problem.

justdoit posted 5/20/2014 17:54 PM

Well you didn't really think it was his fault did you? Some faithful betrayed spouses just don't get it!

SpecialK posted 5/20/2014 18:00 PM

Just when you think, okay they've hit bottom, they can always find a lower level!

Broken1Again posted 5/20/2014 18:00 PM

Well, it is your fault. Remember, he just accidentally tripped and fell into their vaginas. How can you not see that??!?! You meanie! Good for you for not spouting back at him with "ummm...maybe you should have thought the consequences through before you inserted your loser self into someone else's loser self Dufus!". Good for you! He wanted to engage you and it didn't work. He will stop eventually when he sees it won't work.

Truly posted 5/20/2014 20:32 PM

Seriously, he had to dig a hole to get that low!

FTG, crickets and let him wallow in his big steaming pile of secondary poo...poor ickle diddums...

BtraydWife posted 5/21/2014 06:42 AM

I'm so glad you are strong enough to see it and know better. My heart sinks when I read a post from a BS and it's clear they are believing the shit sandwich being forced upon them. Good for you and keep it up!

Odds are, your ex's life is always going to be someone else's fault. Sounds fun.

I think I can posted 5/21/2014 10:01 AM

My answer to the accustion that you threw him out would be:

"I sure as shit did. And stay out!"

No12turn2 posted 5/21/2014 12:12 PM

Oh, I got that too. I didn't back down either. I actually think she gave up a lot that she could have fought for in court due to guilt. I guess that was a win, but I expect her to continue blaming me for how much her life sucks now. I will continue to politely remind her that this was her choice. No R was even considered and it's not my problem anymore.

lynnm1947 posted 5/21/2014 12:16 PM

Know the feeling! My XSO blamed me for the business (we owned together) not doing as well after I left him and the business! No way were his years of screwing other women the cause of his misfortunes. Apparently I betrayed him by leaving. Oh, boy!

Breezy150 posted 5/21/2014 12:25 PM

I think they all have to have that victim's mentality to do what they did. He will move on to the next one he can blame for all that is wrong in his life.

I agree, good for you for not engaging, it had to be hard.

Gemini71 posted 5/21/2014 19:21 PM

It's amazing the power we BSs have. We can make our WS sleep with other people, lose their jobs, and alienate their children Just for kicks, tomorrow I'm going to make Dipshit's auto insurance rates rise!

forwardfromhere posted 5/21/2014 20:01 PM

I don't advocate threatening violence because it could backfire on you, but it would've been pretty priceless to say "better the blowup mattress than a grave, which was the other option."

whatnow8 posted 5/21/2014 20:35 PM

Just for kicks, tomorrow I'm going to make Dipshit's auto insurance rates rise!

daisychains posted 5/22/2014 01:08 AM

Oh the poor guy - but I'm sure some hookers don't mind blow up beds.

As for "how far up his ass must his head be" - well obviously far enough up to lick his tonsils but not far enough to open his mouth and see daylight.

absolut posted 5/22/2014 01:28 AM

Oh let me clarify this, because I see some of you are confused.

It's not that we forced them to cheat.

It's that are we so mean, so bad, so awful, that even after they apologized, and said sorry, and promised to stop and not do it again.... we STILL would not give them any more chances!!! Which isn't fair because, hello, we're supposed to be married!!!

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