SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

Return to Forum List

New here. Papers being served today

You are not logged in. Login here or register.

Pudding posted 5/21/2014 06:27 AM

I'm new on this forum having spent 2 years in JFO and R only to discover it was a waste of time, as they were still exchanging lovey dovey emails and who knows what else.

The lawyer sent the letter last night, so he should receive it when he gets home tonight. I have confronted him and told him and now of course he's shocked and upset and is beginning to do the work he should have done years ago. Too damn late,

Will be posting more here, when I get myself straight.

nekorb posted 5/21/2014 06:51 AM

Welcome, Pudding.

I'm sorry you need to be here and that R didn't go as it should have.

Let us know how we can help!

(((Hugs)))

Gemini71 posted 5/21/2014 07:50 AM

Welcome to this new section of the roller coaster that no one ever wants to ride. I view D as taking back control of your life. M and R both take two people to work. We all know what it's like trying to do it by yourself.

Some things you should be aware of now that you've filed.

1. According to a WS, it is now all your fault for giving up. Never mind the A or broken NC.
2. It is no longer about emotions. D is a business deal and you need to protect yourself.
3. We are all here to support you. While everyone's story is unique, odds are the someone somewhere can relate.

((Pudding))

Chrysalis123 posted 5/21/2014 08:45 AM

Welcome Pudding

one2ndchance posted 5/21/2014 12:18 PM

Because you've spent 2 years working on and hoping the marriage could be salvaged, he's been confident that you would always be around. Now that you've shown him you're done, you're going to see an array of tactics from him.

Fasten your seat belt because the roller coaster ride is about to get even wilder. How you tolerate the ride depends on your stamina and strength of your decision.

Return to Forum List

© 2002-2018 SurvivingInfidelity.com ®. All Rights Reserved.