Months ago, our MC asked if there was any restitution my WH could do to "pay" for his A. I said, "There's nothing that can make this 'even'."
HOWEVER, that was before I learned that he took the A underground for 5 months. Now that I wasted months of going to IC and MC (and its a one hour drive each way), I just reserved an ocean front hotel room at Virginia Beach for 4 days.
This weekend, I'm going (alone) to a friend's birthday party at a resort, then driving to the beach (even though, technically, I/we can't afford this, but what-the-hey).
Seven days of being with friends and then being alone (which I don't mind at all)! I am so looking forward to this!
I will spend that time trying to make the decision whether to R, S or D.