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Topic: The karma bus hit hard and drove away fast!

happierdays
♀ 38537
Member # 38537

Posted: 7:58 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

About a month ago I posted about my co-worker; she caught her husband and her so-called friend (and also a fellow co-worker) in the act in their own home. She’s had a brutal month, mainly because there was no escaping what happened at home or at work. How she managed to sit in the same office as OW for a full month without throwing a stapler at her I have no idea!

The OW carried on life as normal, still partying, travelling, living life to its fullest, still carrying on as usual around the office. I believe OW thought given some time it would blow over, that sure she’d done something stupid, but whatever. She never showed any remorse… until yesterday. She was terminated!

She lost a great mentor in the BW, her job and any hope of a reference. It felt like a little justice was done.

Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 8 years
2 daughters, 9 years old and 5 month old

Posts: 152 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada

SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024

Posted: 8:08 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

Love an AP getting hit by the karma bus story. YAY!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 12840 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA

NeverAgain2013
♀ 38121
Member # 38121

Posted: 8:36 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

I must admit, I do so LOVE the smell of fresh karma in the morning. Nothing like it.

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 6327 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA

DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341

Posted: 8:40 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

How about a side of OW toast to go along with that karma coffee??

STUPID BITCH!!!!!

Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen

Posts: 6043 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU

oldtimer97
♀ 2365
Member # 2365

Posted: 10:40 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

Anyone know the reason for her termination? It's not unusual for the cheater to be playing with more than one person. Obviously BW'S H doesn't work with you three, but maybe she got turned in by another coworker sympathetic to BW'S plight or another BW? Hmmmmm

“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou

To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.

Posts: 3420 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: Sunny Arizona

AlwaysBeenStrong
♀ 39888
Member # 39888

Posted: 10:51 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

Woot...sounds like my story. The home wrecker lost her job and 2 weeks later the exasshat did!!

BW: 41 (me)
Divorced soon.
Moving forward.
Pre Nursing Student
Getting a Do over at 42

Posts: 125 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Lonelyville

happierdays
♀ 38537
Member # 38537

Posted: 12:11 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014

My betrayed co-worker told our Manager what happened after missing a couple days of work and the tension in the office being palpable. I've since found out that the OW also pursued and made out with another employee who lives with his long term GF. She's got some serious growing up to do for a 25 year old.

Hopefully this will be a lesson to her.

Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 8 years
2 daughters, 9 years old and 5 month old

Posts: 152 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada

Topic Posts: 7

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