Two children, innocent victims (15 & 16)
When I look back, we both hurt each other in so many ways and our lack of honesty and maturity coupled with poor communication led us to where we are today
Don't bother sending it. If he really wanted to protect his kids from the fallout - he would be the one contacting you.
[This message edited by ddame23 at 3:38 PM, May 22nd (Thursday)]
It is not your concern what her BH chooses to do though. You made sure he knew, and that is the only role you need to have. Consider how contacting him with YOUR concerns may actually hurt him. You are letting the past take up head space. You need to let this go. Why continue to hold on to this and why are you even checking up on them after all this time? Celebrate your new freedom after D and continue to enjoy and build your better life!