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Aubrie posted 5/22/2014 17:51 PM

Can I take a second to brag?

QS works with a couple designers. Tall, skinny, flawless skin, flat tummies, nice clothes...you know the drill. I *could* feel threatened by them. They have his number. They call, text, and email him many times a day about work. But I don't feel like I should watch my back. Why? Cause stuff like Friday happens.

He was at a job. The homeowner was throwing an explosive fit. One of the designers was there doing damage control and nearly failing. QS helped save her butt by somehow talking the homeowner off the ledge. The designer was shaking, fighting tears, and very upset. He told me later, "If it wasn't for boundaries, I might have been tempted to hug her. Looked like she could use one. She had a brutal day. I felt kinda bad for her." Then he swallowed *me* up in a hug.

That is my man. Yes he helped save a deal and talk a homeowner down, but he didn't cross personal boundaries and get all KISA.

I was so proud of him. It seems like such a little thing. But it was big to me. It reinforced my belief in us (not that it was lacking mind you.) and just made me feel, I dunno. Safe? Swoony? Maybe both?

He's a good one.

Wayflost posted 5/22/2014 17:53 PM

Yay! Congrats Aubrie and QS. You two are a real inspiration.

BrokenButTrying posted 5/22/2014 18:13 PM

Awww you and QS are the best!

Thanks for sharing, I love hearing nice stuff from you two.

Mrs Panda posted 5/22/2014 18:21 PM

That's great AUbrie. It feels good to trust your partner.

authenticnow posted 5/22/2014 21:13 PM

MovingUpward posted 5/23/2014 05:15 AM

He's a good one.

Well of course he is. I don't know why you'd expect less of a Cats fan.

rachelc posted 5/23/2014 05:51 AM

love this post!

Aubrie posted 5/23/2014 07:17 AM

Well of course he is. I don't know why you'd expect less of a Cats fan.
Figures you would find a way to get the Cats involved.

Thanks gang.

itainteasy posted 5/23/2014 11:26 AM

Skan posted 5/23/2014 18:40 PM

Your post gave me a warm glow inside!

knightsbff posted 5/24/2014 00:40 AM

WTG QS!!!😀

5454real posted 5/24/2014 00:51 AM

Yay!

Gotta ask though. (You know I've always got a question)

"If it wasn't for boundaries, I might have been tempted to hug her. Looked like she could use one. She had a brutal day. I felt kinda bad for her."

That sounds like a whole lot of *words* for QS. Is that new?

Then he swallowed *me* up in a hug.

You sound comfortable with that.

Both, Huuuuge!!!


Good for you guys!

I'd grin some more, but that would just be redundant!

K, couldn't help it. Great post.

Jrazz posted 5/24/2014 01:32 AM

He's a FANTASTIC one.

Kajem posted 5/24/2014 13:30 PM

AWESOME!!!!❤️

What a great feeling to begin a vacation with!!!! 😎

20WrongsVs1 posted 5/24/2014 16:36 PM

Like!

wildbananas posted 5/24/2014 17:40 PM

Also like.

nowiknow23 posted 5/24/2014 17:58 PM

Big yay!

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