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User Topic: Feeling vulnerable
Softcentre
39166
Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been feeling on edge and vulnerable all week and couldn't work out why, until it clicked, yesterday. This week is the two year antiversary of The Arse going over to Fat Bottomed Girls flat to f**k her (he says he couldn't get it up, I say,does it matter whether he got it in or not?).

This evening a friend is picking the children and I up to go to a fab Christian camping festival over the bank holiday weekend (UK). In many ways,this will be just what I need. But I'm still on edge and don't want to ruin it for anyone, especially as when I'm like this I get snappy with the children. Those of you who pray,can you be praying for me? I'm hoping that this will be a very healing/affirming weekend with lots of fun too. But I will have no privacy to go and have a good cry and let it all out (I'm not a public crier).

And anyone got any tips to help? Thanks.


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - passive aggressive, tt'ing, gaslighting...multiple EA's with different women (1 'proven') and at least 1 PA

Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him.

"Until God opens the next do


Posts: 1120 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
nekorb
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Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lifting you up in prayer!

Your weekend sounds great. Try not to give WH any headspace. He's history.

If you feel the need for a good cry, head to the restroom and have it! Then let it go and move on.

Enjoy your time! Take back your power!


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Softcentre
39166
Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the prayers.

Um, crying at a Christian festival,even in the loo, is asking for concerned people to have a pastoral conversation with me and getting the prayer team converging on me with that concerned yet determined look in their eyes...[repressed english woman runs screaming for the hills]

But I will try the 'stop sign' trick to stop myself obsessing.

[This message edited by Softcentre at 10:56 AM, May 23rd, 2014 (Friday)]


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - passive aggressive, tt'ing, gaslighting...multiple EA's with different women (1 'proven') and at least 1 PA

Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him.

"Until God opens the next do


Posts: 1120 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((softcentre))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4238 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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