Anyways, I told my sister who got this info from somebody else, not to involve herself in that kind of conversation anymore, and not to tell me. I had blocked my ex from my fb account. This info is a small setback emotionally, but I'm handling it ok.
ETA: Btw, he texted me today and said he wants to Skype with our 2yr old son. What should I tell him considering he moved out of state last minute without prior notice?
[This message edited by BrighterFuture at 7:11 PM, May 23rd (Friday)]
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
You know he can't...but he doesn't know you know. It shows you have offered him time. It's him not taking advantage of it.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
This does not surprise me btw.
It is what it is.
Moving without telling you (or giving you no notice) was a dick thing to do. A cowardly thing. Conflict avoidance to the max.
My X moved overseas without tell me or DD (who was 15 at the time). I figured it out almost immediately but DD did not. But when she found out she was pissed. (note this asshole previously got M and did not tell us )
What your conflict avoiding X does not understand is that there are consequences to his actions and no about of avoidance will make them go away. If he wants to change the visitation schedule, then he can get a L and ask the court to change it. Thing is, conflict avoiders rarely do this because they will then have to face the conflict. Until there is a new court order, follow the current court order completely.