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LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 |  Posted: 8:18 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 |     |
Well, we are off to Ireland! I am packing my green, some comfy walking shoes and a rain jacket! This is a company-earned trip. I am proud of my H for this achievement. I recall after D-Day me telling him it was time to step up. As a H, a dad and a business owner. This is nothing but proof that he did that. Can't fake this!
Anyway, we will be around lots of women who like to hug and I am reminded to watch myself watching him (bionic's comment re: evaluating as per brokensmile's thread). I have no doubt that at least a couple of these gals know of the A which of course makes me uncomfortable. The AP will not be there thank goodness.
Pretty sure I won't be indulging in Guinness. Maybe I will take to whiskey....or maybe not! 
So, if you don't hear from me for a couple weeks, you now know why. I am going to miss you guys! And man, am I going to miss my kids.
LA
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2971 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
4everfaithful83
♀ 41761
Member # 41761 | | Posted: 8:26 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Awesome! I've always wanted to go to Ireland! I hear its gorgeous there!
I hope you and your H have a wonderful time! Enjoy! 
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 32
WBF: 28
Together 8 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...
Posts: 578 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania |
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024 | | Posted: 8:38 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Congratulations Mr.LA44! Godspeed to you both. Hope you have a wonderful time and make amazing memories.
We will be here waiting to hear all about it!
BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 10515 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 8:46 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Enjoy your trip. 
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53991 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 8:50 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Thanks all. I am nervous about going overseas and my eldest has had a few tears. Makes it hard to get excited....but I think once I get there I will be okay. Get to see my parents in between flights so that is something I am really looking forward too!
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2971 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
brokensmile322
♀ 35758
Member # 35758 | | Posted: 8:51 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
First of all, LA, that sounds wonderful! Will you kiss the Blarney stone? Enjoy yourself and make lots of memories ! BUT-
OMG! Your post about the other women hugging. I was just going to post about hugging. Is this a normal business procedure? I am trying to wrap my head around it. I cannot believe you mentioned it. And the evaluating----I DO THE EXACT SAME THING AS YOU AND BIONIC GAL!
I could go on and on but I don't want to T/J your thread!
Be safe!
Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."
Posts: 1699 | Registered: Jun 2012 |
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817 | | Posted: 9:31 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
OMG! Have so much fun!! Drink the Guinness!! And the whiskey. It'"s all good, baby!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 6834 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
blakesteele
♂ 38044
Member # 38044 | | Posted: 9:34 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Way to step up MR LA44!!
Safe travels.
Peace
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
Posts: 4492 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri |
ItsaClimb
♀ 37107
Member # 37107 | | Posted: 8:44 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Have a wonderful time LA44. Ireland is amazing. We spent some time there in 2011. ( if you're interested I have a blog at http://richardsonseurope2011.blogspot.com/ the Ireland part starts at Day 15) The Irish are such amazingly friendly people.
Enjoy every minute!
BS 47
Together 29 yrs, M 26 years
2 daughters 25yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later
Posts: 1124 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
devasted30
♀ 39439
Member # 39439 | | Posted: 11:06 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
LA44 - have an amazing time. Though you can't help but doing so because Ireland is wonderful. Irish Coffee, I got hooked on it the first time I went and have taken to drinking it every time I'm there. And a lot of times when I'm not here too. It'saclimb is right, the people are incredibly friendly. Can't do enough for you. Have great time and enjoy yourselves. It's a nice time time of the year to be there too. The greenery is fabulous. Oh how I envy you this trip. Enjoy!!!
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
Posts: 1543 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada |
AML04
♀ 39682
Member # 39682 | | Posted: 11:42 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Hope you have a fantastic time!!!
Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R
Posts: 876 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA |
Joanh
♀ 39146
Member # 39146 | | Posted: 7:52 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Enjoy the experience. Let it be a beautiful time of seeing new.
BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....
Posts: 440 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 8:33 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
@brokensmile, yes they are taking us out early this week to kiss the stone. I will kiss it for all of you too! And yeah...hugging women...I don't get it. We didn't do this when I was working in Corp way back when.
ItsaClimb, wow! Thanks. I will be sure to check out your blog.
Thank you all for your well wishes. And yes, Joanh....a time for seeing new.
Have a good couple weeks, friends. Be true
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2971 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 8:33 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
oops! double post [This message edited by LA44 at 8:54 PM, May 25th (Sunday)]
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2971 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
hopefull77
♀ 43221
Member # 43221 | | Posted: 10:34 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Just seeing this...have a wonderful time!
me-BS
him-WS
3 adult children 1D 2S
married-1977
LTA 06-2010 - 11-2012
D-day - 11-11-2012
status - reconciling and very hopeful
"Let Go of Control; Let God's Life Flow" ...Richard Rohr
Posts: 800 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: sunny california |
OnAnIsland
♀ 34319
Member # 34319 | | Posted: 2:56 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014 | |
Have a wonderful time. it should be a great time of the year for your visit. live each moment in the present.
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
Posts: 1482 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
DixieD
♀ 33457
Member # 33457 | | Posted: 3:11 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014 | |
You are likely well on your way by now and will not see this, but I wanted to send best wishes for a fun adventure and safe travels. Enjoy yourself.
Growing forward
Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011 |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 12:05 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Need luck of the Irish! Plane issues! Spending night @ hotel. We will get there eventually. Thanks for your kind wishes.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2971 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
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