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User Topic: we forgot the 4-year anniversary...
heartbroken0903
♀ 27879
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...of divorce being final. May 14. (Just to confirm that XH forgot too, I asked him "Honey, do you remember when we got divorced?"---he's sitting next to me on the couch---and he said "Nope.")

He got mad last year when I reminded him. So, I didn't just now.

But it was May 14, 2010. Seems like yesterday but also a long time ago.

Time really does change things.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2370 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 5:20 AM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck to you & your F, BH0903.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 784 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
heartbroken0903
♀ 27879
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, vulcanized.

It surprised me as I'm really one for remembering dates.

I'll take it as a sign that negativity is less on my mind, I guess.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2370 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
LAFA
♂ 31868
Member # 31868
Default  Posted: 2:29 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I recall writing to you some months ago when you were contemplating moving back together. Glad to see that the two of you are doing well, and wish you both continued success.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 211 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
heartbroken0903
♀ 27879
Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks LAFA. I remember your posts. I appreciate the good wishes.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2370 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
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