Well, the title kinda says it all.
WXH has been acting squirrelly, and has not contacted his kids in months. (Both DSs are 20). I suspect he is on vacation, possibly his honeymoon. Even if it's not the case now, I know it will be soon.
Question is, when he marries her, do I tell the kids, or make him do it? I believe he should do it. I also know he won't....or if he does it will much later in the future, I feel like if I know he's gotten married, it would be lying not to tell the boys. But then, once again, I am doing the hard work with the kids while he does nothing.
Advice? Do I tell the kids, because they should know, or wait and make him do it, which may happen long down the road, or not at all?