"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept
Well, the title kinda says it all.
WXH has been acting squirrelly, and has not contacted his kids in months. (Both DSs are 20). I suspect he is on vacation, possibly his honeymoon. Even if it's not the case now, I know it will be soon.
Question is, when he marries her, do I tell the kids, or make him do it? I believe he should do it. I also know he won't....or if he does it will much later in the future, I feel like if I know he's gotten married, it would be lying not to tell the boys. But then, once again, I am doing the hard work with the kids while he does nothing.
Advice? Do I tell the kids, because they should know, or wait and make him do it, which may happen long down the road, or not at all?
"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222