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Dad of the year is at it again - vent

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fraeuken posted 5/26/2014 13:55 PM

XH is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

Mr."I am so rich, I stay at Four Seasons only, I am building a 1.5 million $$$ home in one of the most expensive counties in the US" informed DD16 that he is not planning to pay her annual college tuition that was agreed upon in our parental agreement but that she should take out student loans because they are 'free money' and then later he would help her pay the money back. Sure, you will...

Mr."I am so concerned about my children, I am the fun dad they want to be with all the time and I will do anything and everything for my kids" totally forgot to inform DDs and me that he actually is traveling quite a bit these days so I will basically have DDs for 4 weeks straight leading up to 3 weeks of vacation in Europe I am taking the girls on. He is very nonchalant about not seeing his beloved DDs for almost 2 months because after all, he will take them on a 12 day trip to the lake house in July. But after that I need to take them again because him and Sparkly Panties need to get ready for arrival of their love child.

It's sad for DDs. They even commented last week on how they can't understand why their father is so indifferent about whether he sees them or not. Vent over. Off to the beach...

nowiknow23 posted 5/26/2014 14:27 PM

((((DDs))))

jo2love posted 5/26/2014 16:46 PM

(((DDs)))

Cookie7088 posted 5/26/2014 17:02 PM

He is very nonchalant about not seeing his beloved DDs for almost 2 months because after all, he will take them on a 12 day trip to the lake house in July. But after that I need to take them again because him and Sparkly Panties need to get ready for arrival of their love child.

And this is why he will wonder when the times comes to walk them down the isle at the wedding....and they ask someone else to have that honor...

"In order to give them away, they have to have kept and cared for them first!"

PurpleRose posted 5/26/2014 18:29 PM

Total Dooosh.

I don't even try to understand how a father can abandon his children anymore.

PhoenixRisen posted 5/26/2014 21:28 PM

He is an ass...
My thoughts run more towards getting tuition by hitting his ego, something like DD mentioning to him, that she is sorry he is struggling financially since he can't pay tuition. When he denies that and points our his new home, lake house, BMW, horse, diamond cuff links etc... She can pull one of those look-of-pity-faces and nod. Then later that day email him grocery coupons!

fraeuken posted 5/27/2014 00:40 AM

PhoenixRisen, you are giving me some ideas...

Catwoman posted 5/27/2014 04:22 AM

If your decree states that he is to pay X amount towards tuition, you can take him to court for contempt if he doesn't pay it. I would.

Cat

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