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 RiseAbove22 (original poster member #43325) posted at 2:30 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

my ex girlfriend during most of her cheating would always use her family as an excuse that she was doing things with them,

but when it really got bad towards the end of our relationship this

past winter she started making up disturbing lies like a family member was beaten and injured and needed to go take them to the ER…..what kind of a twisted mind chooses their own family to use as a pawn in their games? saying their lives are in danger etc to stay gone all night??? have any of you had similar stories where the ex made up horrific stories such as these? if she can throw her own family under the bus then she can never be trusted by anyone!

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justjim ( member #41150) posted at 2:36 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

My STBX used the story that she was going home (70 miles away) every weekend from Friday to Sunday night to help take care of her poor blind Daddy

Her Mom came down with cancer and died in two months. (Karma?)

I found out later that she was only going over to her parent's house for an hour or so on the weekends. The rest of the weekend she was shacked up with the OM.

Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 8:51 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

Oh boy, I always cringe when people lie about family mishaps. I never would even say my kid was,sick to ditch work for a day, when I was employed, was always afraid it would happen. That's a special kind of f**kd up to use her family but not surprising when a,ws is trying to escape to hook up with AP.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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stunnedmullet ( member #42975) posted at 8:52 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

My WH used taking the boys to a museum in a different city as a way to spend the day with OW playing happy family with two of my kids.

It makes me I'll to know that

DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)

BS (me) 45
WH 43
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years

4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA

married 22 and 7 kids

Attempted reconciliation for 18 months until he walked out without warning

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 9:55 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

Omgosh Stunned...such a chicken shit move. I'm pissed off just reading this.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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 RiseAbove22 (original poster member #43325) posted at 8:24 PM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

yea she's a special kind of mental.

I've never seen tactics nor such a drastic change in a person i thought i knew so well. its scares me….

I'm sure there are some more people on here that have some crazy stories……chime in peeps….

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 RiseAbove22 (original poster member #43325) posted at 5:58 AM on Wednesday, May 28th, 2014

also a lot of the time she would use work or school out of town as lies to be with someone else,she used these things cause they seemed to be important. using your family and saying they are hurt etc is very nuts and is betrayal to your family as well.

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 RiseAbove22 (original poster member #43325) posted at 7:51 PM on Sunday, June 1st, 2014

anyone have anymore stories,advice etc?

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Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 8:25 PM on Sunday, June 1st, 2014

I worked with a low life pathological liar before she transferred out, and one of the whoppers she told us all was that one of her parents had cancer and she had to take off work frequently to help with doctor appts etc. I have no clue if she was involved in an A or not.

Anyway, our dept sent a Thinking of You card to the one parent who had cancer, and expressed our best wishes and said we'd keep them in our prayers. We actually mentioned that we were sorry to hear of the cancer diagnosis.

The day after her parents received the card, the pathological liar came in, fit to be tied, angry and steaming, and curt and with a nasty attitude. We found out she was lying about one of her parents having cancer, but what could she say? That she lied about it so she could have time off to do whatever?

She was, and probably still is, a nasty piece of work.

DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)

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