WH never physically met his AP. Their affair took place entirely on technology and she lives halfway across the country. On D-day, I tried to contact her husband on Facebook, but based upon her blog, I'm 99.9% positive that she intercepted my message.
I've tracked down where her husband works. I'm going to hire a PI to deliver printouts of her online porn site, her porn forum posts, and her blog posts about her affair with my WH where she discusses hiding her pain from her husband.
Once I get confirmation of delivery from the PI, I will drop a similar package in the mail addressed to her mother.