Lived in formerly marital home for 5 years post divorce. Ex and I equally paid mortgage and to split equity at sale and now, add on xxx amount for CS arrears (legal and signed)so I will get more than half.
want to buy me out so I get paid my equity plus the xxx amount for arrears. Who pays me this? ex or the mortgage company?
He thinks he is getting furniture he legally signed over to me while in affair fog love bliss unicorn land, claiming some are family heirlooms. (not quite but whatever, guess he regrets it now) I only want a few things and leaving the rest. How do I go about using this as bargaining chip rather than just letting him have it from his bully behavior? Agreement only says I am not allowed to dispose of it essentially I keep it forever. In event I don't want it any more I have to offer to him first. That means it moves with me when I go if I want right? He seems to already be interpreting that differently. What about appraisal? I don't trust him for fair deal or value of house plus he has extended family in that industry of appraising.
It's a few months away, just want to plan ahead. Have you done this? Any advice? Googling only tells about at divorce not beyond, nothing helpful about bargaining or making sure the other party doesn't scam.
Whatever happens after I get paid and off the deed, I don't care. My guess is owife will be on the new title. She can't wait to get her hands on anything mine. Well she can have it.