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User Topic: Trial "separation" trial "together"
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Member # 41245
Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This weekend we have a family wedding to go to. We had committed to it long before things had reached the stage of wondering whether to separate. We've been kind of doing an "in-house" separation, and as things have calmed a bit, and maybe for the sake of the weekend, I'm suggesting to my H that I'm open to a bit more closeness, though I still feel a bit fragile. We are still looking for a separate place (outside of the caregiving home) which would give both of us a chance to get away, or perhaps an opportunity for us to try living apart if needed.

Anybody else been "on again off again" in terms of living separate lives?

Married 10 years, together for 15
Me: BS Him: chronic boundary issues, EA for 2 years, DD Spring 2013

Posts: 215 | Registered: Nov 2013
million tears
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Member # 24416
Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure if this counts but after the A we were trying to work things out so we were together...then WH decides he wants an in-house separation (not A related) I went to my mom's place in another state. Like I want to be with him in the same house after that. I didn't call or text the whole time. When I got home he had changed his mind and wanted to work things out. With some work things got better. I think we needed the separation.

2 year LTA-double betrayal, D-day 1-26-2009 and many months of TT.

Married 27 years. Together 29.

3 children 24, 21, 14

OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC. WH just your ordinary asshole.

Posts: 1673 | Registered: Jun 2009
Topic Posts: 2

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