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User Topic: Rant to WS (languge)
Broken613
♀ 17670
Member # 17670
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today I reached my breaking point and need to yell. Please excuse the language.

Dear Jackhole,
Are you fucking kidding me? Here I am willing to put this whole affair issue aside so we can work on you and then come back to it and you pull this shit? Are you mentally deficient in some way? Have you always been this moronic and I never saw it? I have spent the last few years defending your increasingly erratic and asshole behaviours to our friends, my parents, to myself. And you canít even give me the courtesy and dignity of just telling me the truth. You, sir, are a class A asshole.
Do you think I enjoyed showing that waitress your fucking girlfriendís ugly mug and asking if she had been in with you today? She was honest with me and got a great story to tell her buddies after work. And I held my head up high as I walked out. Have fun going back there as I told her why I was asking.
And asking my boss for time off - that was fantastic. I enjoyed watching him look terribly uncomfortable as I fought back tears. That was fun. I wonder if itíll be as much fun for you when I report your little coworker friendship to your HR office. Probably not.
And STD testing. Really looking forward to that little excursion tomorrow. I know you say ďnothing happened,Ē but come now, Dear, we all know your word is worth about as much as a gold flaked dog turd.
So after you get finished with your little going out tonight - at least I can confirm that because what you donít know is the person youíre going out with tonight knows the whole story - we are going to talk. And then, if I think you are even worth it, I might think about waiting a week or so to make any decisions. I am generous that way - your head is just too far up your ass to see it.
And now, since you aren't currently hemorrhaging money out to pay for shit for your girlfriend, I finally got around to spending money on a new pair of shoes - donít these bitch boots look nice on me?


Don't gamble with what you can't afford to lose.
D-Day - December 18th, 2007
Real D-Day - May 24th, 2014
More lies in months that followed

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: British Columbia
hardtimesinlife
♀ 10468
Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

<clapping>


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6183 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
Hidingmyhurt
♀ 43525
Member # 43525
Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

<Standing Ovation!!!>


Me: BW 39
Him: STBXWH 47
Married 10 years
2 sons, 14 and 9
DDays 2004,2008,2012 and 5/8/14

Posts: 60 | Registered: May 2014 | From: USA
Broken613
♀ 17670
Member # 17670
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*bows*

Thank you.

I did warn him he didn't want to lie to me again or gloves would come off. *shrug* Actions meet consequences.


Don't gamble with what you can't afford to lose.
D-Day - December 18th, 2007
Real D-Day - May 24th, 2014
More lies in months that followed

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: British Columbia
theroadahead
♀ 43334
Member # 43334
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!


Me: BW(46)
Him: WH (46)
D-Day #1 March 2002- 1 year EA then 4 month PA with co worker
D-Day #2 March 2012 - EA with different co-worker

It's funny how sometimes the people you'd take a bullet for,are the one behind th trigger.


Posts: 59 | Registered: May 2014 | From: New England
mchercheur
♀ 37735
Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE IT


Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 7 mo. PA with COW;
Married 20something years with kids
Trying to R

Posts: 1465 | Registered: Dec 2012
stunnedin12
♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice Job.

Actions meet consequences .... Wh about hurled when I told him after his last break in NC, "You may choose your actions, but I choose the consequences."

Nice new shoes, btw. It's amazing how many different sizes they come in.

On a serious note - I'm sorry for your hurt.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 519 | Registered: Jan 2013
MakingMyFuture
♀ 43530
Member # 43530
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Standing on a chair clapping! I don't think they have any idea how much their actions have destroyed other parts of our lives...even just doing normal tasks. I now have to drive an extra 15 minutes to get to a bookstore? Why? Because at the local store, I was so humiliated when I purchased every book available on surviving an affair, marriage busters, cheating, stages if divorce etc. I got to stand in line with them for 10 minutes and then have a long drawn out discussion on how I didn't want the 'member disscount' Yeah , like I want some marketing analyst going over my purchases and emailing me other 'suggested reading' for my failed marriage or controlling my yahoo banner adds. So humiliating- over a year and haven't been back since.

Stay strong, and keep your head high

[This message edited by MakingMyFuture at 8:55 PM, May 30th (Friday)]


When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou

DDay 1 - 1/13, False Recovery Discovered more + Broken NC so DDay2= 7/14

9/9/14: filed for divorce

BW: 42 (me)
WH: 40 (him)
DD-10, DS-8


Posts: 127 | Registered: May 2014
Broken613
♀ 17670
Member # 17670
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. I am a little less punchy right now - which is why I am glad he's not home yet. I was a bit dangerous earlier. No tears though. In fact, I kind of feel hard-hearted. He told me who he was and I listened and confirmed.
I love him, but still think he's a selfish prick who needs to be booted off the fence.
MakingMyFuture - I am sorry. Don't be ashamed though. Reclaim the bookstore. I plan on reclaiming all the places they went to eat, with or without him. Head high, shoulders back.


Don't gamble with what you can't afford to lose.
D-Day - December 18th, 2007
Real D-Day - May 24th, 2014
More lies in months that followed

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: British Columbia
MinorBee
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Member # 17895
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...but come now, Dear, we all know your word is worth about as much as a gold flaked dog turd.

Actually, I believe that the full market value of the dog turd is substantially higher.


previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

Posts: 457 | Registered: Jan 2008
Broken613
♀ 17670
Member # 17670
Default  Posted: 1:04 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


So he *thinks* he wants to divorce because "I would be better off without him." Yes, I would, but that's is such a copout. And he got all upset when I told him what divorce entails. Did he think I was going to just do an easy divorce? Fuck that noise, I'm not taking half his debt. Well, at least his ass is off the fence. For now. He has no idea what he wants, I clearly outlined his options and he keeps wavering. Pity for him I am beginning to see that I do.
I'm hurt but already holding onto the idea of FTG.


Don't gamble with what you can't afford to lose.
D-Day - December 18th, 2007
Real D-Day - May 24th, 2014
More lies in months that followed

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: British Columbia
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