Oh, and they ALWAYS affair down!!! Don't ever compare yourself, because you will always win, hands down!! It doesn't feel that way at first, but once everything processes (and it could be years later) you can't help but know you're above the AP, especially in morals and integrity!
H still works with COW so I see her from time to time when I visit him at work. Yesterday I was picking up coffees on my way to see him and she was driving in front of me. She parked and went in. I was SO tempted but went through the drive-thru instead, I was shaking and nauseous. I don't trust myself to keep a cool head.
Good for you!!
Standing ovation to you.
I still feel I would surely be behind bars if I ever run into my WH's slunt. She better be glad we are over 10 hours apart and in different states.
I'm with tryingsodanghard. It would have went very badly for OM if I was able to confront him in person. Over the phone he was a coward, and he was fired shortly thereafter when I brought it to his boss.
I like your story because you had courage to stand your ground, hold your head high, until she capitulated. That's STRENGTH.
Reconciled; Sometimes still have hard days, but getting by. Still dealing with feelings I buried,but finally getting them out.
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
[This message edited by tryingsodanghard at 9:10 AM, June 2nd (Monday)]
...i'm waiting for her to pop out like a monster.
I couldn't believe her. She is not an attractive woman. Shes very overweight and doesn't have a kind womanly shape. As shallow as that sounds, in the predicament I found myself in, it make me settle and I thought that any man would physically choose me over her. My self esteem isn't as shot and I feel excited this morning. I'm not sure why as i'm still processing emotions and pain, but today I feel good
Love It!!! It seems like you needed to know what the monster looked like. Honey, in some way or another,they always affair down. Enjoy your high.
Both feet pointed forward; positive