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User Topic: Oh gawd
♀ 42294
Member # 42294
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So im sitting at work, and next patient that comes to me happens to be the same woman who sent my fws a video of her pleasuring herself. . I was proud of myself and acted profesionally. I was registering her in our system the whole time thinking what should I say? I chose nothing.

Instead she said, you look familiar do I know you from somewhere. Im like I dont think so (yes actually. Im the SO of the man you sent a video too).

I get to the question of her place of employment and it says "Homemaker" so I ask her..Are you still a homemaker? She laughs and says yes. What I should have said was are you still a homewrecker, oops I mean homemaker?

I acted like I had no idea who she was. I thought about saying something about my FWS, just casually. Decided against that. Id rather her think I have no idea then to think fws told me who she was but not about the video. I wasnt going to mention the video so there was no point in mentioning fws. I had a little laugh with a coworker after she left. Im just happy that fws is being open about all these advances towards him. Im glad that it was ME sitting there knowing the truth and not her. The truth is he sent the video to all his friends. The truth is he hasnt talked to her since. I can only imagine the type of odd moments I will have when FWS starts doing even better with his music, and the groupies that come along with it. Things have been going pretty good though. Weve had a few really good talks, and I think were headed in the right direction.

t/j... I enrolled for school!! Im pretty happy about that and fws is being supportive so thats definitely good. During his A he didnt want me to go to school for some reason....Ill have to wait until this baby is born but I have everything in line and ready!!!

Posts: 272 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
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Member # 26750
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I should have said was are you still a homewrecker, oops I mean homemaker?

Thanks for making me laugh this morning, I needed it.

Great that you were so cool during this!

many kids now, 1 then
DDAY: anniversary

"Reconciled" (whatever that means)
Sometimes still have hard days, but getting by. Still dealing with feelings I buried, trying to get them out. She won't talk about it, s

Posts: 297 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: USA
♂ 42858
Member # 42858
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you in maintaining composure and class. You place your professionalism above her craziness. You should be proud.Victory: yours

I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awful that you had to deal with this person.
Instead she said, you look familiar do I know you from somewhere.
Maybe its because you sent a video of your va jay jay to my SO. Very interesting video. All my SO's friends found it interesting, too. Do you get paid for that? Maybe you should think about getting paid instead of doing it for free! <smiling sweetly

Good for you for being able to keep your cool. I know I wouldn't.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 13446 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
♀ 36146
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, May 31st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes!! Now that's what I would do. good for you. I just read a different thread of someone who did the opposites and was very happy about it. I thought something was actually wrong with me in that I would never engage the OW and ifi did it would not make me happy. I guess we all just have our ways. I'm with you on this one and it makes me feel better that I'm not alone. I

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