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DTERMINED2SURVIV posted 5/31/2014 10:58 AM

So im sitting at work, and next patient that comes to me happens to be the same woman who sent my fws a video of her pleasuring herself. . I was proud of myself and acted profesionally. I was registering her in our system the whole time thinking what should I say? I chose nothing.

Instead she said, you look familiar do I know you from somewhere. Im like I dont think so (yes actually. Im the SO of the man you sent a video too).

I get to the question of her place of employment and it says "Homemaker" so I ask her..Are you still a homemaker? She laughs and says yes. What I should have said was are you still a homewrecker, oops I mean homemaker?

I acted like I had no idea who she was. I thought about saying something about my FWS, just casually. Decided against that. Id rather her think I have no idea then to think fws told me who she was but not about the video. I wasnt going to mention the video so there was no point in mentioning fws. I had a little laugh with a coworker after she left. Im just happy that fws is being open about all these advances towards him. Im glad that it was ME sitting there knowing the truth and not her. The truth is he sent the video to all his friends. The truth is he hasnt talked to her since. I can only imagine the type of odd moments I will have when FWS starts doing even better with his music, and the groupies that come along with it. Things have been going pretty good though. Weve had a few really good talks, and I think were headed in the right direction.

t/j... I enrolled for school!! Im pretty happy about that and fws is being supportive so thats definitely good. During his A he didnt want me to go to school for some reason....Ill have to wait until this baby is born but I have everything in line and ready!!!

titanfour posted 5/31/2014 12:00 PM

What I should have said was are you still a homewrecker, oops I mean homemaker?

Thanks for making me laugh this morning, I needed it.

Great that you were so cool during this!

justinpaintoday posted 5/31/2014 13:06 PM

Good for you in maintaining composure and class. You place your professionalism above her craziness. You should be proud.Victory: yours

SisterMilkshake posted 5/31/2014 13:23 PM

That is awful that you had to deal with this person.

Instead she said, you look familiar do I know you from somewhere.

Good for you for being able to keep your cool. I know I wouldn't.

cantgetup posted 5/31/2014 22:54 PM

Yes!! Now that's what I would do. good for you. I just read a different thread of someone who did the opposites and was very happy about it. I thought something was actually wrong with me in that I would never engage the OW and ifi did it would not make me happy. I guess we all just have our ways. I'm with you on this one and it makes me feel better that I'm not alone. I