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selkiescot posted 6/1/2014 09:18 AM

today as I was cleaning out yet another box I found my Twin Towers coin. I bought it in NY in 2006 to help the families of 9/11 heros. But it also triggered the hell out of me because that's when I began suspecting WH was cheating. 2001...13 years ago. I caught him in March of 2002. I never new exactly how long it was going on but I did suspect him in Sept of that year. UGh made me ill. All this time wasted in MY life.

jo2love posted 6/1/2014 17:00 PM

(((selkie)))

TrulySad posted 6/1/2014 18:34 PM

(((Hugs))) I'm so sorry...

This happens to me when I least expect it. I was celebrating my son's birthday last year. He turned 18. I went to bed with tears in my eyes because my memory of his birth is now tainted with the knowledge that my ex was having an affair while I was pregnant. And the OW even brought me dinner in the hospital, after giving birth.

Their A's change so much in our past .

Maybe you can do what I did and toss the items that remind you of his betrayals. In reality your sanity and emotional well being is far more important than an object.