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User Topic: Chopping wood
♀ 43131
Member # 43131
Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I owe a big thank you to whoever mentioned in a post that they use chopping wood as an anger outlet. I woke up FURIOUS this morning. I got really belligerent and demeaning to WH. So I marched out back, got an axe (at this point he probably $h!t himself), and went to town on some tree stumps on our property. Man, watching them crumble under my blows was so cathartic! I highly recommend it! So thank you to whoever mentioned it!

"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 372 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
♀ 42354
Member # 42354
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not sure who it was, but it's a brilliant idea. I would have loved to have seen the look on your WH's face when you picked up that big ole axe!!

Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 333 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
♀ 42544
Member # 42544
Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol that sounds like a pretty fantastic moment to have had hidden cameras around recording his face with every wack you took. I don't have an ax or any trees to cut down but that does sound so good! Good for you for finding a healthy outlet :)

Together - 14 years
Married - 7 years
DDay- Jan 15, 2014. WH had EA/PA

Hopeful reconciliation.

Posts: 152 | Registered: Feb 2014
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