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brokeninfl posted 6/1/2014 16:23 PM

So, six years after their affair started, and one year since they got married, OW left my exWH.

Apparently, "marriage wasn't what she thought it would be" and for the latest, she apparently slept with some other guy while they were away for the weekend celebrating their one year anniversary. (I'm sure it wasn't the first)

He kept saying "you were right. You were right about everything)

He dropped the kids off, and when he got home she had packed all her stuff and she left.

I'm not crackling with glee about the whole thing like I thought I would be, but I'm not sad by any means. I just feels like the totally inevitable.

So, if your wondering if it will last - or if they are happy like they seem - chalk this one up for another example of - relationships built on affairs don't last.

evephoebe1 posted 6/1/2014 16:27 PM

Wow. He put all his eggs in the wrong basket, so to speak.

918Mama posted 6/1/2014 16:56 PM

Sitting on my hands and resisting all snarky comments BEGGING to get out of my head.

Some lessons in life SUCK! He just got a really incredible, sucky one. Hopefully his experience will be used for good and result in one less person shoving their head up their ass for lurvvve.

In the meantime, continue living your life well. It's truly the best revenge.

Raising my glass to you, BIF!

betrayedpregnant posted 6/1/2014 17:01 PM

IrishLass518 posted 6/1/2014 17:10 PM

I find it very sad that he gave up all the good that he had, for this, for someone who didn't deserve one single ounce of the attention and time he gave to her. Some people just have to learn the hard way.

PurpleRose posted 6/1/2014 17:19 PM

No big surprise that his schmoopie love unicorn died. How sad it took such a life-altering event before he learned a hard lesson that was completely avoidable.

NeverAgain2013 posted 6/1/2014 17:30 PM

The HELL you say!

Guess that saying, "if they'll do it WITH you, they'll do it TO you" has some merit after all, doesn't it?

Yeah, sorry but I can't cry for him either. My give-a-damn is broken.

Losconang15 posted 6/1/2014 17:34 PM

So you're saying it took 6 years for Karma to pay him a visit? :)

BrighterFuture posted 6/1/2014 18:40 PM


We love karma stories!

brokeninfl posted 6/1/2014 20:45 PM

Hopefully his experience will be used for good and result in one less person shoving their head up their ass for lurvvve.

Stranger things have happened -so it's possible this will actually be a life lesson he takes seriously.


No big surprise that his schmoopie love unicorn died.

So true. I told a friend and she was like "they just got married" - but let's be honest here. Neither of them put a lot of stock in marital vows, so nope, not a shocker. Although I really thought having a baby would be what didn't them

So you're saying it took 6 years for Karma to pay him a visit? :)

Ha! Yes. Sometimes Karma is slow - but it's always satisfying. Although I do wish I had the for thought to record the conversation because I really would love to replay the "you were right about everything" part a couple 100 times.

SBB posted 6/1/2014 21:01 PM

He kept saying "you were right. You were right about everything."

Damn straight - I was right about you too.

I can't believe he's seeking comfort from you. I half expect the sad clown to tell me he now knows how I feel when OWUmpteen cheats on him. He is that dumb.

Odds are even as to who will cheat first but I'm rooting for it to be her. I hope they both waste a decade on each other before it implodes. Her her 20s and him his 40s. The end is inevitable, it would just be nice for my girls not to have 5 different schmoopie loves of his in their lives. As they say, 'Better the whore you know.'

brokeninfl posted 6/1/2014 21:14 PM

'Better the whore you know"

OMG, I totally spit out my drink when I read that.

True enough (although I will forever intensely dislike this particular one since she tried to get my kids to call her mommy more then a year before he proposed. )

I have no doubt he will be with someone else soon (or perhaps back with her for a while if he can be convincing) He has finally admitted (which I've known all along) he's been afraid of being alone his whole life (FOO issues out the ass)

RidingHealingRd posted 6/1/2014 22:18 PM

Why am I not shocked.

Why does this make me ?

FaithFool posted 6/1/2014 23:14 PM

Poor muffin.

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