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User Topic: Perimenopause
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Shutup  Posted: 7:34 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

O. M. G!!

Every two weeks??? SERIOUSLY??? This is driving me crazy!! I feel like my body was programmed for a certain number of periods in my life and PCOS interrupted the schedule, so it's now trying to get them all in before everything shuts down.

Grrrrrrrrrr!!


Posts: 11830 | Registered: Mar 2008
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, I remember that well. It was awful. My skin was too tight, I was so clumsy, constantly bumping into things and everyone, I mean EVERYONE bugged the shit out of me. All I can tell you is there comes a time when it is all finally over. And it feels G R E A T!!! Hang in there.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1631 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. I totally remember it. It sucked! I literally thought I was going crazy too.

(((TIKY)))


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 11. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1680 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you considered progesterone cream? I resisted for a long time, because I am cautious about hormones and meds, but it made a huge difference and resolved those heavy and too frequent periods. If you are no longer ovulating but still menstruating then your estrogen to pregesterone ratio is out of balance. It's called estrogen dominance.


BS, 54 years
D-day 6-2-08
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

Posts: 6277 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, June 1st (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been taking vitex, which is an herb that helps regulate hormones. I did TONS of research on it before deciding to invest (all $7 from Vitamin Shoppe)... I have been taking it to regulate my cycle, and it is also suppose to help with fertility, but a lot of the reviews I read were from women going through perimenopause, and they said it was helpful for them as well.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1619 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EVERYONE bugged the shit out of me

yep and this is so hard when going through affair crap and my job is to connect with people - kids!

I've been taking Lexapro right before my period starts. that has helped but my body is sensitive to it and it works right away. Otherwise, I might kill someone... :/

I'm getting the pouch under my belly button too and it pisses me off.

I gave up alcohol. That has helped the sleep cycle.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Never be so focused on what you're looking for that you overlook the thing you actually find.”


Posts: 7485 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
deena04
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know, but I am so sorry! Girly issues are one that I really feel for since, well, I'm a girl, too. Hang in there :)


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 6 years, married 8/13, D 2015
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr

Posts: 1807 | Registered: Dec 2013
authenticnow
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Red  Posted: 6:35 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rachelc,

Please remember to keep OT infidelity free.

Thank you.


Trust is earned when actions meet words. ---Chris Butler

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh just saw this. sorry!!!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Never be so focused on what you're looking for that you overlook the thing you actually find.”


Posts: 7485 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
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