(Lost my prince)
I'm sorry you are going thru this - even on facebook.
He really shouldn't have face book. How ridiculous of him. A grown man who is a cheater acting like a teenage hormone filled loon on face book? What an asshat. And I don't get grown men who are connected with high school people. I guess it's just not in my area of understanding. To me, when a man gets married, he should be so beyond high school, unless he actually lives in a small town of 5000 where he went to high school and is working in a job in that same small town and works with some of people from that high school or runs into them at the gas station, or something. What do grown men, married, with or without children, need of face book and old high school "friends"? It's just so girly to me - sorry, sounds so sexist, but I"m not in contact with any high school "friends" on face book, some times I get cards, but that's it, I live over a 1000 miles away from my old high school and never give it much more than a back ward glance in my mind. I'm too busy and to me it's just fishing for trouble. And I don't know any one else who is on face book with old high school buddies either.
I know, I sound like a biatch. I guess being cheated on can help that along a bit. Sorry. Here you are, on facebook and I'm knocking it. I'm not really. It just gives me the creeps when I hear about grown men on facebook. To me, it sounds like trying to find women. I don't get the whole married men on face book thing, sorry, I know it's sounds sexist. Seems that anytime facebook is mentioned, cheating or too much friending is there too.
Again, so sorry. I'm married to an SA too. It sucks. You are so strong.