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PhoenixStorm (original poster member #35316) posted at 11:57 AM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
Today is a brand new day. I can't say what tomorrow will bring. I can't think about the future right now. One day at a time. The Serenity Prayer is my Mantra.
POS WH will sign the Divorce Agreement today. I will file Tuesday morning.
Someone from my last thread hit the nail on the head with this quote:
Unfortunately, I think you're so used to living in a quagmire of dysfunction that you're no longer able to tell the difference between normal and decent and abnormal and deviant.
Now it's all about Damage Control. For my family and myself. I will sign up for IC today. I am going to put this behind me and learn from it.
My tears can fall for those who have been hurt and wash away this pain. I no longer cry for the loss of my marriage or in my own self pity.
Anyone who read(s) my previous thread; please read my responses carefully, please don't judge me for being a fool and believing the lies my POS WH told me. Too bad I followed my heart and then still had to be knocked in the head a couple of times before the reality of what was going on really hit me. I'm going to make this right...with everyone involved.
Here's to a great and wonderful new start on my life. Every day is a blessing! 
Phoenix signing off.
BS UNSUSPECTING FOOL 54
WH BECAUSE I'M THE MAN AND I GET TO DO WHAT I WANT 46
OW The weakest of the pack 41
DDay: 2/20/12 The most out of control day of my life
Trying to R - TRYING
UPDATE 5-10-14 OVER WITH IT!
DDAY2 5-10-14
Divorced 8/19/14
lilacs40 ( member #31314) posted at 12:12 PM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
Sounds like you're in a good place. Peace to you and DD and GD.
Good for you for getting him out of your lives.
evephoebe1 ( member #36923) posted at 3:40 PM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
Sending (((hugs)))
Good for you for being brave and strong! You deserve so much better.
Wishing peace and healing for you and your family.
Me: Survivor! BS (47)
Him: WH (45)
2 awesome kids, 13 & 16
Losconang15 ( member #42544) posted at 4:54 PM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
Sounds like you're in a great place in life today :) continued strength and positivity for you :)
Jan 15, 2014. WH had EA/PA
Hopeful reconciliation
Althea ( member #37765) posted at 5:30 PM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
Phoenix, we all make mistakes. Treat yourself with the same compassion you show others. Stay strong.
Taking it one day at a time.
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