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LostSamurai posted 6/2/2014 19:16 PM

Tomorrow my WW will have her own Dday persay called Rj (Rejection) Day. If she doesn't or does say she wants to R, she is going to be in for a shock, because I am going to straight out and say the following;

"I want to Reconcile but will not be choosing that."
"I will no longer be going to MC and I will be leaving the church. Here is the key."

If she wants to R and throws tears and all then I will say, talk to MC, and see what he says. I'm done.

Better4it posted 6/2/2014 19:25 PM

Hi Lostsamurai,

Sorry for your pain Brother. I guess it's true what some people say. Sometimes it just takes are hearts longer to catch up to what are minds are already trying to tell us. Good luck to you

LostSamurai posted 6/2/2014 19:27 PM

Thanks. Originally, was going to write an email a letter for tomorrow then I was going to write an email stating if you think you want to R, then read some of this, pointing her to SI, but there is no point. She doesn't want to be with me anymore, any longer than she already has.

totalheartbreak posted 6/2/2014 19:36 PM

I'm sorry LostSamurai. I've read your posts. I feel for you.
In an odd coincidence I changed my ipad background to a stylized silhouette of a samurai standing, but with his head down shortly after my DDays.
A warrior of the purest honor who was completely betrayed. It resonated with me.
Today, I tell you to keep your head up. I wish you strength and confidence.
You will become a Ronin. Good luck, I will be thinking of you. Hang in there.

yearsofpain25 posted 6/2/2014 20:17 PM

Hey LS, still here listening. I know it's not what you wanted. But has become what you needed. Sending you strength and courage for tomorrow.

yop

LostSamurai posted 6/2/2014 21:27 PM

Thanks everyone. I actually will be changing my UN tomorrow to Ronin as well. After all, I no longer will have a master tomorrow come 2pm.

totalheartbreak posted 6/2/2014 21:32 PM

This was the image I mentioned.

LostSamurai posted 6/2/2014 21:52 PM

I like that. You should look up the true story of the 47 Ronin...

Ostrich80 posted 6/3/2014 02:08 AM

(((LS) )). Sending you strength for tomorrow. I'm sorry things didn't work out

LostSamurai posted 6/3/2014 05:53 AM

I don't care anymore. Thank you for the strength.

She text me last night and said what if I don't have an answer for you today.

I said that's find, I have an answer that will take care of everything.

So I won't worry.

yearsofpain25 posted 6/3/2014 06:04 AM

Pulling for you today LS. God speed and strength to you.

Better4it posted 6/3/2014 11:53 AM

Lost Sam,

Was thinking of you and your struggle. Again good luck with today and your meeting with WW. I hope she wakes up and sees the damage she's causing due to her selfishness.

cantaccept posted 6/3/2014 12:06 PM

(((LostSamurai))) sending you strength

TrulySad posted 6/3/2014 14:22 PM

I've been quietly following your story. I'm sorry for what you're going through. I hope things will finally be looking better for you. Hang in there!

If there is one thing I've learned through three broken relationships, it's that while this life I'm living isn't the one I dreamed of, it's not going to stop me from making it the best damn one I can. The first step is to take back control of your life...It looks like you're on your way...

RedRaven6500 posted 6/3/2014 14:55 PM

I wish you the best of luck as well. Interesting fact: you can actually visit the Sengakuji Temple in Toyko, where the 47 Ronin are said to be buried, near Shinagawa Station. I lived in Japan for four years, and this is one if those places that is a must see tourist spot while in Tokyo. The story is a definite lesson in patience, to say the least. :)

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