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User Topic: Need goods thought - My dog is in bad shape
hurtbs
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Concerned  Posted: 1:44 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My big baby girl (9.5 year old mastiff) is having hind leg problems. She had this issue last Fall and vet thought it was a minor stroke. She suddenly struggles with being able use her back right leg and her back left leg is also week. She cannot correct her toes (when you curl them under). When I touch her leg, hip, and back she does not react as though it is painful. She doesn't want to walk at all - usually when a dog injures a leg then can do the three legged hobble.

I have an appointment at her vet in an hour. This came on suddenly and progressively became worse. Maybe it's an injury, maybe musculo-skeletal. Not sure. Really worried. Please, keep me in your thoughts. At 9.5 years she is a "senior mastiff" but has been in exceptional health until the incident in the Fall and now. I'm really worried that this is very serious... waiting is the worst part! Image below (she's the big baby girl on the right)



Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor sweet girl. Sending good thoughts for you both.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

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Edith
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh she is beautiful! And her sibling is as well. I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep us posted.

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

Posts: 423 | Registered: Feb 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doggie prayers and good thoughts headed your way!


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TheRealDeal
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good thoughts and prayers are being sent your way. (((hurtbs)))


Me: 46 him: 54
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March thru June 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
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Posts: 270 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts and lots of mojo for your sweet baby!


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13878 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is very beautiful...sending positive thoughts.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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Posts: 3260 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet faces, both of them. Sending mojo.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Charity411
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are beauties. My good thoughts and prayers are on the way.

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k9lover1
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts your way. Such beautiful animals and I'll bet they are great companions and loved very much.


D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late.

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Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength and good positive mojo your sweet girls way.

She is so beautiful. I love big dogs.


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Moved back home Oct 31 2013
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False R. Still Lying.

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I just want to give her a snuggle . She's beautiful hurtbs. Sending all my mojo that she feels better soon.



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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My very best thoughts for your big, beautiful girl.


Me BS
Him WH
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Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwww... she's GORGEOUS! Sending good thoughts to you both!

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vet is nearly positive it's hip dysplasia. They gave me a referral to an orthopedic surgeon (can't see her until the end of next week) :/ Apparently, hip dysplasia cane have a sudden onset of symptoms. Shocking that it was never seen in her before now (9.5 years old). At her age, surgery is not really feasible so I guess I will be pursuing medical management. They gave me a ton of pills - pain killers, NSAIDs, and some Glucosomine (which I will wait to add to her diet until she can go to the bathroom without discomfort - don't want her getting diarrhea on herself).

Such a pricy problem...


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive mojo that the meds help your baby girl.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww...poor baby. I hope you can find a way to make her comfortable. I know what it's like to have an unwell mastiff; they are such wonderful fur babies.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo and good thoughts. I hope the meds and orthopedic can help. Your dogs are beautiful.

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep coming back to look at your baby. Her face is so sweet. How could anybody not want to snuggle with her and your other baby all of the time?


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lots and lots of mojo!


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Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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