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small step, but a good sign i think

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Ostrich80 posted 6/3/2014 14:40 PM

So today is the sea-hag's bday. In the past, this day would have me in A tizzy. I've spent countless hours parked in the hot car on ws route to work, hoping I would catch him with her. I actually forgot it was her bday this year, until someone told me that saw it on her DD's fbk wall. So I'm not wasting my time to drive and stake out his job, I'm not going to slyly smell him when he walks in the door, and I'm not going to ransack his clothes after he showers..nope, I'm planting flowers today and its just another warm June day. Not a big step but at least one forward and not back. BTW..this is big for me, as menial as it sounds have a nice day friends

lostworld posted 6/3/2014 15:02 PM

I think it's a big wonderful step, and I'm really happy that you were able to take it!

LeftOutintheCold posted 6/3/2014 19:43 PM

Great job! It really is a big thing when you realize you are getting on with your life. All steps moving forward are worth celebrating and being proud of!!

SisterMilkshake posted 6/3/2014 19:51 PM

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)
Enjoy your gardening!

LifeIsTooWeird posted 6/3/2014 22:44 PM

Hehe sea hag, well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt. Congrats on making it through the day, just got through my first one, next year will be easier.

Ostrich80 posted 6/4/2014 08:02 AM

]well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt.[

Maybe one lump for every year she's f**ked up for me

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 8:04 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)]

brokeninfl posted 6/4/2014 08:13 AM

It doesn't sound like a small step to me -- just a perhaps a small sign of some big healing.

I'm so glad you are doing better

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