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rollerager posted 6/4/2014 08:45 AM

It's only been a week and a half and I thought I was doing good with the feelings but so far this morning it has been rough. The lonely feelings are sinking in and I really hate this... I just don't know what to do.

The only person I really have is my cousin, but she's a manager at her store so she works a lot. I don't really have friends because I never had time for any in my relationship (because I took care of everything). Also it's hard to get out with both the kids because my son can be really difficult and I also have an almost 7 month old daughter.

I normally try to keep myself busy so I don't think but it seems the thoughts have caught up to me today. We have an appt at 9:15 and then once my mom and brother get home I am going to try to get to the counselor. They couldn't see me yesterday because I wasn't early enough (It's a walk in).

I just hate the lonely feelings... :(

seethelight posted 6/4/2014 08:52 AM

Rollerrager:

Come here to vent. You are not alone. There are many here who feel just as lonely as you do.

Being cheated on makes us feel lonely.

It's normal.

Scubadoo posted 6/4/2014 09:00 AM

Post hear often. We hear you and are here for you. There are so many people here with a wealth of experience and knowledge. You are truly in good hands.
I know the loneliness can feel overwhelming some times, but now you don't have to be alone. There are friends here.

Ostrich80 posted 6/4/2014 09:41 AM

Posting here can be very therapeutic. You can get it all out, its like poison leaving your body. I'm sorry your hurting. Sucks, I know and your not alone, we've all been touched by infidelity.

bionicgal posted 6/4/2014 09:42 AM

This place has been a lifesaver for me -- not many people know in real life, so keep posting, and hang in there.

rollerager posted 6/4/2014 10:25 AM

Thank you guys so much. The kiddos have been doing very well at adjusting so I am thankful for that.

I should have everything moved out this weekend, he said he didn't want to be at the apartment when I did but that he would take the kids afterwards.

So maybe I can get some time to just take care of myself then.

seethelight posted 6/4/2014 12:33 PM

I am sorry for all your pain Rollerager.

I will keep you in my meditations and prayers.