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Riskybusiness (original poster member #43475) posted at 9:41 PM on Thursday, June 5th, 2014
I am not just surviving, I am thriving!
Darling hubby and I, married 21+ years, four amazing kids. First discovered his infidelity 9 years ago. Separated one year and after much work (on both sides!?) reunited. Followed by His many relapses over the last 8 years and new emotional affair discovered 9 months ago, have been separated since and pursuing divorce.
Ugh, this divorce rigmarole is crap! Have had a mediocre mediator and should be FINALLY receiving our mediation report next week! (Been three months meeting with this guy). Hoping to be finally nearing the end!
Marriage is "risky business"!
Me-42
Engaged 5/2017
Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
Two DD-adults. DS-18, DD-14
DIVORCED
Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:39 AM on Friday, June 6th, 2014
Welcome RB. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but it sounds like you have a good attitude about it!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, June 6th, 2014
Welcome RB! This is an awesome group and we are sorry you're here but glad to have you!
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:15 AM on Friday, June 6th, 2014
Welcome, RB! Nine years is a long time to be dealing with this crap. Glad you're nearing the end. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
justinpaintoday ( member #42858) posted at 2:19 AM on Friday, June 6th, 2014
RB: At first i read your post and was "wow" how can you seem d chipper. But realizing you have been battling for 9 tears at least, you are finally getting free from the prison of an unfaithful marriage.
I hope you will truly find peace and comfort in your new adventure. Welcome to SI
I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 12:19 PM on Friday, June 6th, 2014
Welcome Risky! I am glad you found us. I cannot imagine 9 years of that. Hope you get the report soon and finish with that part... It really drains you when it drags on and on!
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
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