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User Topic: The waiting game
♀ 38372
Member # 38372
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that is the worst part of this mess. Waiting to find a new home. Waiting to get a job. Waiting to hear from my lawyer.

She contacted WH's lawyer this week about discussing dissolution vs. traditional divorce. I so hope that WH thinks with his pocketbook and not his crazy NPD side and agrees to the cheaper, quicker solution.

Seriously, we could be divorced in 90 days or less if we go the dissolution route. Won't that free him up to live his newfound single life?

Oh wait, he acted like a bachelor while we were married, too.

Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (32)
2 DDs - 4yrs & 2yrs (as of Oct 2014)

multiple PAs

Filed for divorce May 16, 2014
1st court hearing October 23, 2014 (rescheduled :/)
divorce final November 20, 2014

Posts: 157 | Registered: Feb 2013
♀ 24961
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's all about waiting. Put the time to use. Watch a movie he would never let you watch. Get a manicure. Go to that cute antique store you've always wanted to that he thought was stupid. Breathe. You will get there.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
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