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Troubleinparadis posted 6/6/2014 16:02 PM

I was just wondering if when w/s breaks n/c and they get with the ap, can it ever be as exhilerating as it was in the actual affair now that it's been discovered? Wouldn't discovery be a "buzz kill"? W/S's welcome

seethelight posted 6/6/2014 16:07 PM

I was just wondering if when w/s breaks n/c and they get with the ap, can it ever be as exhilerating as it was in the actual affair now that it's been discovered? Wouldn't discovery be a "buzz kill"? W/S's welcome

Yes, it can be just as exhilerating after dday

That is why so many affairs are found out to have gone underground or been resumed after dday.

If the affair partner is married, have you outed the affair partner to the other faithful spouse.

If not, please do this. This does prevent the affair from going underground sometimes.

Also, can you out the affair partner to anyone else the affair partner respects?

Troubleinparadis posted 6/6/2014 17:06 PM

Shoot! I was desperately hoping it wouldn't be as enjoyable now that a bit of "reality" was in play. The ow is single. Her adult married daughter has even joined in the situation by trying to help the two stay together. ( talk about low self esteem and a need for mom's attention!). The ow has more conscience than H at this point. He claims she has tried to break it off a couple times. That's why daughter dearest got involved. Ow may be just playing cat and mouse games.

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