I never did warm up to her--and years and years ago, I was following all the Hollywood stuff when Antonio's first movie "The Mambo Kings" came out in the USA.
Melanie Griffith apparently set her sights on him with the focus of a laser beam, regardless that he considered himself very married and "Catholic" (religious--yeah, like that gets ya far these days!).
Then, next thing you know, he divorced, they married, and !wham! she is getting all this plastic work done on her face and lips. (ewwwwww) I think Antonio was her "fourth" marriage...
I don't feel one bit sorry for her. She was a home wrecker.