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Topic: Dad hospitalized
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nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 |  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 |     |
I'm in my hometown this weekend with DD15, visiting my dad. He was rushed to the hospital overnight. Don't have much information yet, but his hemoglobin is very low despite receiving six units of blood two days ago. It looks like he might be spiraling. 
If you could, please send him some positive thoughts, comfort, and peace.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28185 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
thebighurt
♀ 34722
Member # 34722 |  Posted: 9:59 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
So sorry to hear this, NIK. Sending everything I've got. (((((((Huge hugs to the family and Dad))))))
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2737 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 11:10 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending all the positive thoughts and peace that I can to him, you, the kids... everyone.
I'm sorry, honey.
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20723 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468 | | Posted: 11:12 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending positive thoughts, prayers, strength and peace to your dad and to you lady. ((Hugs)) [This message edited by persevere at 11:12 AM, June 8th (Sunday)]
Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4831 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 11:15 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((Nik & family)))
Sending love, strength, good thoughts, and hope. You are in my heart.
Posts: 38199 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2 | | Posted: 11:15 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((NIK))) Sending you peaceful and healing thoughts
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 200833 | Registered: May 2002 |
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817 | | Posted: 11:19 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending best possible wishes for him!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 6831 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518 | | Posted: 11:19 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((nik))) keeping y'all in my thoughts
Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect
Posts: 12237 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 11:30 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((NIK))) Glad you can be there for him.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18094 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 11:44 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Praying.....
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2996 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 11:47 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending love and mojo to you and your dad and dd. ((((((((nik))))))))))
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 46564 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
DixieD
♀ 33457
Member # 33457 | | Posted: 11:50 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((NIK)))) I'm sorry to hear to that. Hoping for comfort and peace for all of you.
Growing forward
Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011 |
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369 | | Posted: 11:50 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((((NIK, Dad, and Family)))))
Sending thoughts and mojo your way.
“When we protect ourselves so we won't feel pain, that protection becomes like armor, like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart.” ― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 10423 | Registered: Dec 2010 |
woundedby2
♀ 18522
Member # 18522 | | Posted: 12:13 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((nik)))
Sending prayers and mojo.
Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7903 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
woundedby2
♀ 18522
Member # 18522 | | Posted: 12:13 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((nik)))
Sending prayers and mojo.
Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7903 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 12:50 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Sending you, your dad, and the rest of your family prayers and positive thoughts.
(((NIK, Dad, family)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3723 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 1:02 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
Count me in, NIK. This sure is a rough year for you - not fair at all. 
(((NIK))) (((NIK's Dad))) (((NIK's family)))
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I
Posts: 11097 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area |
sadtoo
♀ 2027
Member # 2027 | | Posted: 1:26 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((nik & dad)))
It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.
When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE him.
OC born 2001
DDay 2002
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)
Posts: 8062 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 3:29 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((nik and dad)))
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
BrokenButTrying
♀ 42111
Member # 42111 | | Posted: 3:37 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014 | |
(((((NIK & dad))))))
Hope he gets better soon. Sending love and strength.
Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters in R.
My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.
Posts: 1283 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK |
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