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nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:45 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
I'm in my hometown this weekend with DD15, visiting my dad. He was rushed to the hospital overnight. Don't have much information yet, but his hemoglobin is very low despite receiving six units of blood two days ago. It looks like he might be spiraling. 
If you could, please send him some positive thoughts, comfort, and peace.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:59 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
So sorry to hear this, NIK. Sending everything I've got. (((((((Huge hugs to the family and Dad))))))
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:10 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Sending all the positive thoughts and peace that I can to him, you, the kids... everyone.
I'm sorry, honey.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:12 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Sending positive thoughts, prayers, strength and peace to your dad and to you lady. ((Hugs))
[This message edited by persevere at 11:12 AM, June 8th (Sunday)]
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:15 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((Nik & family)))
Sending love, strength, good thoughts, and hope. You are in my heart.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:15 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((NIK))) Sending you peaceful and healing thoughts
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 5:19 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Sending best possible wishes for him!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 5:19 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((nik))) keeping y'all in my thoughts
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:30 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((NIK))) Glad you can be there for him.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 5:47 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Sending love and mojo to you and your dad and dd. ((((((((nik))))))))))
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 5:50 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((NIK)))) I'm sorry to hear to that. Hoping for comfort and peace for all of you.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:50 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((((NIK, Dad, and Family)))))
Sending thoughts and mojo your way.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:13 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((nik)))
Sending prayers and mojo.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:13 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((nik)))
Sending prayers and mojo.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 6:50 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Sending you, your dad, and the rest of your family prayers and positive thoughts.
(((NIK, Dad, family)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:02 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
Count me in, NIK. This sure is a rough year for you - not fair at all. 
(((NIK))) (((NIK's Dad))) (((NIK's family)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 7:26 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:29 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
BrokenButTrying ( member #42111) posted at 9:37 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
(((((NIK & dad))))))
Hope he gets better soon. Sending love and strength.
Madhatters - We have R'd.
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. We can do this.
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