Then, "Where have you guys been traveling to?". Aha! So word of D hadn't gotten to them yet! I replied with where I had been and they must not have heard we were D. A gasp and, "I'm soo sorry! ". I said that I'm NOT. Not after learning what xpos had been doing. I told how he had blindsided me with filing and admitting to 2 As, in 2 months, then expanding it, then TTing of up to a year, then hearing from others of two years, then more like 4 or 5. And trolling CL for sex, internet porn dating sites, etc.
At each revellation, there was an audible gasp and, "I'm sooo sorry". I was talking low, but people were looking because of the gasps. It was only several minutes, but now they know. And this is someone who knows many of the same people that know both me and xpos from a number of different aspects; school, jobs, neighbors, acquaintances, kids, etc. And has a spouse who seems to be all over the place and LOVES to gossip!! I remembered that part as I left the store and had a little chuckle to myself at the mental image of the word quickly spreading.
Note to xpos: If you don't want to be the subject of gossip and REALLY don't want people to know the truth about what you've done, don't do anything they can gossip about!! It's not MY secret to keep!
The lesson to learn: You should really be careful about pissing off a songwriter.
Finally divorced Jul/17
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Thanks, Dmari, I'm hoping it is, but ever fearful that xpos will use ANYTHING for a reason to sue me again, even if it is because I told the truth to someone.
Pass, I love it!! Your fans are eager to hear more about your life in song. I want to come to a performance sometime, but I will be careful to stay on your "good side"!!
Sad, I've told anyone who asks - and some who didn't! If I had posted something like that on FB, it would have been plural and I would have needed to include that I didn't like his "acquaintances", because some he had just met from ads and not a gf, just an available and willing sex partner.
I made sure I dropped a few well placed comments with some well known gossips. I'm sure they had a field day with it.
You go, girl. I KNOW you won't mince words or waste a good opportunity! (Me neither!)